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30 Oakland, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 29–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 30
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), Sign Language (Okay), Spanish (Okay), Japanese (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a transplant by way of San Jose, Austin, Waco, and Hawai'i. Oakland is the first city that's felt like home since I left Hawai'i, and I love it.

I love the outdoors and anything to do with it. The sun just makes me happy... seeing it, feeling it on my skin. My idea of fun could be rock climbing, hiking, kayaking, stand up paddle boarding, camping, biking, picnics, flying a kite, training for a marathon/triathlon, hang gliding, scuba diving, reading a book outside, watching a movie, trying a new restaurant/trailer, dancing in the rain, singing off key at karaoke, live sports games, museums, art shows, ballet, musicals, festivals, etc. Really anything as long as I'm spending time with the people I care about. I'd like to think I'm a fairly rounded person open to most experiences.

I love to travel, and make it a point to visit at least 3 countries a year. The only thing that holds us back is our flesh--our fears, insecurities, and selfishness. So let's pack up and go! :)

I live in my idealistic world. I'm not naive--I love life and want to make the most of it.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working towards my hopes and dreams for the future, which many say are illusions of grandeur, but what do they know? They're not me. :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
dancing in the rain and not getting sick... and preparing an elaborate, nonpoisonous meal for the people I care about :D
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've been told I have a nice smile, but that's all relative. And that I'm really tall... for an Asian that is.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm very diverse when it comes to my interests. I'm a book nerd who enjoys nonfiction, fiction, sci fi, biographical works, as well as books about religion and philosophy. I like any movies except scary movies (I'll watch them, but I'll have to close my eyes sometimes). Scary movie=ridiculously, vivid nightmare. I'm up for pretty much any show because they all represent different cultures. I'm also open to most music, but don't ask me who sang what because I'm terrible at that game. As for food, I love food. I'm a fat girl at heart because I'm willing to try most things at least once, and I love cooking for others.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good friends
Clothes on my back

Everything else... They're wants and not necessities.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think about life in general, my bucket list for the year, and the bucket list for my life.

I think about what I'd like to try to cook this week. :)

I think about my overly ambitious, but awesome goals.

I think about how to visit every single country in the world before I die.

Maybe I'm just really ADD about my interests and that's why I think I'm well rounded. Or am I really well rounded?

I think about why the sky is blue... or is it?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Typically, on a Friday night, I am spending time with my friends. We might be having dinner, going to the movies, going out, or trying new things.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I color code my hangers to my clothes. Strange, I know.
You should message me if
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You're adventurous and open minded.
Looking for a friend who loves the outdoors, going out to eat, or trying new things.