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31 Oakland, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 29–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 25
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), Sign Language (Okay), Spanish (Okay), Japanese (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I'm a transplant by way of San Jose, Austin, Waco, and Hawai'i. Oakland is the first city that's felt like home since I left Hawai'i, and I love it.

You know that saying, "Jack of all trades, and master of none?" That applies to me, except I'm a master of living life and doing my job. Aside from that, my interests keep evolving. Wanna learn to rock climb? Do it. Wanna learn to scuba dive? Do it. Wanna learn to code? Do it. My newest interest is boxing. I'd like to think I'm a fairly rounded person open to most experiences.

I love to travel, and try to visit at least 3 countries a year. The only thing that holds us back is our flesh--our fears, insecurities, and selfishness. So let's pack up and go! :)

I live in my idealistic world. I'm not naive--I love life and want to make the most of it.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working towards my hopes and dreams for the future, which many say are illusions of grandeur, but what do they know? They're not me. :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
dancing in the rain and not getting sick... and attempting to cook.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm Asian. gasp!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like to cover the spectrum, just to name a few:

Book nerd alert: 1Q84, Shantaram, Girl with the Dragon Tattoo series, Divergent series, Harry Potter series, Things Fall Apart, and most of Paulo Coelho's works, as well as Jane Austen and Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, etc.

Movies: Love Actually, City of God, Memento, Rent, Book of Eli, the Physician, etc. Not a huge fan of scary movies, but I'll watch them. Scary movie=ridiculously, vivid nightmare.

Shows: Wicked, Rent, Aries Spear, Nutcracker, Phantom of the Opera, Kevin Hart, etc.

Music: John Legend, Jill Scott, Erykah Badu, Lauryn Hill, Miles Davis, BB King, Nina Simone, Talib Kweli, Etta James, Mac Miller, etc. I'm open to most music, but don't ask me who sang what because I'm terrible at that game.

As for food, I love food. I'm a fat girl at heart because I'm willing to try most things at least once, and I love cooking for others.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good friends
Clothes on my back
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think about life in general, my bucket list for the year, and the bucket list for my life.

I think about what I'd like to try to cook this week. :)

I think about my overly ambitious, but awesome goals.

I think about how to visit every single country in the world before I die.

Maybe I'm just really ADD about my interests and that's why I think I'm well rounded. Or am I really well rounded?

I think about why the sky is blue... or is it?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The world never knows! I might be out having dinner, going to the movies, going out, trying new things... Ooor, I'm at home catching up on Netflix or reading a good book.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I color code my hangers to my clothes. Strange, I know.
You should message me if
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You're adventurous and open minded.
Looking for a friend who loves the outdoors, going out to eat, or trying new things.