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35 F New York, NY

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5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
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Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
I'm a good down to earth person, quick witted, a thinker, a little sassy, sweet. I work hard but when i step away from my desk i'm easy going enjoyable company. People say my personality is not one they've come across.
I love other introverts who aren't shy, if this describes you or even if you understand what I mean we may be quite happy together.
What I’m doing with my life
Working (youth development), planning something or the other, reading something or the other, giggling as often as possible.

...Probably watching Netflix
I’m really good at
making guacamole, massages, listening, understanding, being a friend, cheering up & surprising you, writing, seeing through bs, telling the truth even when it's difficult, sensual touch, fixing things, making people laugh, using color when i paint, making just about any situation about being in good company.
The first things people usually notice about me
Depends on the day, but often it's my hair or my lovely face.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite books: East of Eden, enders game & shadow series, a fine balance, by the light of my fathers smile or anything else by Alice Walker, lilith's brood or anything else by Octavia butler, pillars of the earth and a few others by ken follet some drag a bit, kite runner, twilight & hunger game series (that's embarrassing i know), Wuthering Heights, Beloved, the essential etheridge knight, absence in the palm of my hands, krik krak, the book thief (oh that one was amazing)

Love Sci Fi , i'm one of those people still upset about Firefly, not that i write to fox about it. I love movies that make me cry and feel enlightened (for a couple hours) or that are sooo dumb I think: "I'm too old to be watching this" at least once. Showtime can do no wrong with a series.

Music just kind of swims in my soul and comes to mind when needed. I love just about everything EXCEPT; heavy metal ("music" proven to have been created simply to annoy old people and me apparently), electronica (ugh), and polka.

I love spicy food and sweets, always ready to try new things. I was vegan for years but it left my adventurous spirit feeling neglected.
The six things I could never do without
-God, feeling connected every now and then if not always (that's not about religion, this is about an understanding that I'm a spirit on a human journey)
-My loved ones
-Sunshine and blue sky
-Water (swimming, bathing, drinking its awesome did we miss that?)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
kissing a handsome man in the rain at sunset, while wind blows through my hair, Oooh and we're on beach and the smell of tropical flowers lingers in the air. And he sighs and whispers in my ear: "you're the most wonderful woman on the planet, forget Michelle Obama and her perfect arms." Mmmm...
On a typical Friday night I am
Catching a movie or dinner with a friend from work, or watching fashion police, before passing out from a week's worth of exhaustion. (not that im particularly into fashion, but that evil old Joan rivers cracks me up)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
lol I thought i covered this when i said what i think about. I think about kissing all the time ... I like kissing. :-) (blushing) lol that is so silly
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 33–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
If you have a good heart, and an open & interesting mind. If you are emotionally mature. If you're secure in yourself and positive towards others. If you are fairly confident about what you know without being convinced you know it all. If you can just be without pretense.

If something about me clicks for you and you are interested in learning more.