Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
The exterior of a person, what they look like, what they have is
far less important to me than who a person is on the inside. I am
attracted to bright, funny women who make me laugh, but character
matters above all else. I have gone out with women who are “not my
type” and been very pleasantly surprised. I no longer consider
myself as having a “type” and remain open to the possibility that
the love of my life will look or be completely different then what
I ever would have imagined.
Let’s give each other a chance and not write each other off too
quickly. I also find people become much more interesting, beautiful
and special as I get to know them really well. I love to laugh,
smile and have a good time. For me fun involves being with people I
love and care about, being intimate, playing, engaging in deep and
meaningful conversations, going to new places and experiencing the
beauty of life and nature. I am smart, deep, funny, but have a
serious side as well. I am emotionally available, open minded,
passionate, thoughtful, gregarious, warm and considerate. I work to
become a better person every single day and I especially appreciate
when people view life as a fascinating and exciting journey.
As you get to know me I open up and I have lots of character and
personality. I am a great listener and I am genuinely interested in
others. I have a lot of compassion and empathy, putting myself in
another person’s shoes; I am able to appreciate perspectives
different from my own.
I am very fortunate that I have a fulfilling and decent life. I
have good friends, family and career. I would love someone special
in my life who I can give and receive love, share important
moments, create lasting memories, smile, laugh, play and have a
good time. I don't mind the idea of being friends first and really
getting to know each other but don't get me wrong I do love sex.
When we can truly savor each other’s company and form a deep
respect for one another this serves as a solid foundation for a
mutually loving long term relationship. I am also open to the idea
of forging new friendships even if there is no romantic chemistry
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and I have a
private practice in Beverly Hills where I work with mainly LGBTQ
clients. I am passionate about the work I do. I am financially
secure, stable, responsible and independent.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening and empathizing with others. I tend to be a good
communicator. People find me to be a loyal, dedicated caring and
compassionate friend. I am a good mom and have a great relationship
with my kids. I am intelligent and have a voracious thirst for
knowledge. I am constantly growing as a person and have done a lot
of personal work on myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
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The first things people usually notice about me is that I am a very
open, warm, gentle person. I am very friendly, approachable and
easy to talk to.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Most of what I read are psychology and self help books. I read some
fiction and at the moment I am reading Poisonwood Bible which I am
enjoying, but most of the time it is the serious stuff.
In terms of movies - I love a funny comedy which makes me laugh. I
like thrillers, courtroom dramas, romantic stuff, some action
movies & documentaries.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
friends,family, love, knowledge, cellphone, laptop
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The meaning and purpose of life and interpersonal relationships.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either I go out with friends or I spend time with family.
You should message me if
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You are a psychologically minded, see the good in others and try to
become a better person all the time. Who you are as a person is
more important to me then what you have. I am looking for someone
who has a high level of integrity is educated, openminded,
intelligent, affectionate, emotionally available, sweet,
compassionate, caring, honest and loving person.
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