I am real because I tried posturing when I was young and it never
felt right. I am deep because it is so fulfilling. I am transparent
with best friends and partners because it is freeing. I am still
friends with my past partners and see some of them as good friends
on occasion. It was all about love. Still is.
I love to travel. Nature is pristine but cultures attract me too. I
often visit Hawaii each winter. I have a free spirit and a solid
ground too - great balance - from backpacking to home owning. I am
romantic, a poet, musician, and dancer, with a healthy lifestyle,
trusted, compassionate, and full of life. The S.F. North Bay is an
aware, forward-thinking place to be.
I am presently in a long term open committed relationship with an
interest in more so finding someone in a similar situation would
probably be ideal. I will leave it to you to let me know what might
work for you.
What I’m doing with my life
Improving, glowing, growing, deepening with my mens group, being
mindful, giving thanks, choosing peace not drama, exploring nature,
places and things, maintaining my health, biking, hiking, walking,
looking for like minded souls. I am mostly retired from work but
never from life. I have been involved with conscious open
relationship groups such as Network for a New Culture, Sacred
Connections, and Morehouse.
I’m really good at
Living in the moment. I have created a full and relatively easy
life (rentals/homes) which support me and give me many options. I
look forward to more friends living with or nearby me, in Ca. and
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile, my ease, my lightness. I am tender and passionate when I
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Most anything that changes my consciousness and stretches me.
Thoughtful thrillers, sci fi, mysteries, romances, and true
stories. Visionary books - Stranger in a Strange Land, Time Enough
for Love, Silent Spring, The Power of Now, Etc. Almost all music -
especially visionary classic rock and folk. I like Thai, Chinese,
Japanese, Italian, Slow Food, Whole Foods, Trader Joes, Buffets,
and occasionally Subway Sandwiches.
The six things I could never do without
There are so many more than six. Intimacy, transparency, good
friends, nature, variety, and creative thinking.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My next grand adventures. Balance and healthy living.
On a typical Friday night I am
All over the map (or home).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My self esteem and goodness are developed. I am proud of 15 years
in a men's group. Good relationships and good sex is life affirming
and have been mostly easy for me.
I am very open to meeting new people in various ways and long term
deep relationships are possible.
You should message me if
You intuitivly like what you have seen and felt here.