I'm queer/bisexual. I have my disagreements about the latter term, but I grew up fighting for bi-visibility and against bi-erasure and still feel that those are pertinent issues for myself and others. I've recently come to terms with being poly. I've never had a completely exclusive relationship and would feel suffocated if I couldn't explore closeness with other people. Since realizing that I and most other people I've met are attracted to more than one person at any given time, I just don't see the point in limiting ourselves or lying to each other. I believe we can work to get rid of our insecurities and not hide behind the social script of monogamy because we think it's easier somehow. I'm not saying that monogamy is evil or anything like that, but like so many things, it's on a spectrum, and I am somewhere in the middle. I don't care to know exactly where. "I want to celebrate and live my life." I don't want to miss out. I don't want to fake. And I would need my primary partner and other people I become involved with to understand, as my friends have so simply known and accepted before I even did. My basic goal in life is to be honest and enjoy what my internal world and the world around me has to offer. Oh, and I did just quote "Dynamite" by Taio Cruz up there...
My favorite color is yellow, because it reminds me of unabashed happiness and sunshine.
The awesomest, most exhilarating thing I've ever done is skydiving, and the simply happiest, most perfect road trip I've ever been on was through the desert in New Mexico. I would LOVE to see the mountains in Colorado in person one day.
My drink of choice is whiskey and ginger. -ale or beer, doesn't matter. Heck, I've had a shot of whiskey and ginger tea as a chaser, and that was unbelievably smooth and tasty... and funny.
I like clubbing, board games, scary movies, hula hoops, singing badly, books, being surrounded by pretty lights, and beloved friends. "In the Ayer" and "Ignition (Remix)" are still two of my jams.