I have a full life that includes a healthy dollop of romance and love, career, creativity and music-making - there's nothing missing, so if you're a "looking for what's missing" type of person, might want to skip the rest of this profile :)
What I AM searching for from OKC is a friend-plus who will mutually push boundaries and search for adventures.
You don't have to be the manic pixie dream girl that half of all men seem to be searching for - I don't need you to "save" me (I'm fine, thanks ;) But I do want a person who will occasionally take me beyond the bounds of my usual day-to-day - someone to either:
A) go to EDM and other music festivals with (esp if you're ok with the occasional substance stronger than alcohol/weed - what's your pleasure, South by Southwest, Lightning In a Bottle, Symbiosis, Coachella, let's go on a mission!),
B) explore kink through Mission-Control-type-settings and other interesting avenues of sexual adventure (or explore your own personal kink, whatever it may be, in private),
C) take random road trips to beautiful, cool or weird places (I'll drive!), or otherwise
D) show me something, and let me show you something, that one or both of us has never done before.
Sensation-seekers, music lovers, secret hippies and highly sexual people are especially welcome. If you're married or in a relationship, no problem as long as you have an open agreement with your special someone. Single is fine too, but if you're looking for monogamous commitment, please look elsewhere as I'm openly poly, proud to be so and not changing my mind anytime soon.
I'm not ageist and welcome anyone old enough to drink and younger than 50, so long as we both think the other person is mega hot. Ha!
Just a little more about me: I'm confident, positive, grounded, rational but empathic, adventurous and rarely angry or stressed. I love life and walk the road with a pervading sense that things tend to turn out alright.
And since I get this question a lot: no, I'm not married, and DEFINITELY not sneaking around on girls. I have never cheated on someone and never will. I'm not bi either BUT I am open to an arrangement of three, if you have a boyfriend/husband and want someone else to have some fun with you at the same time.