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simplysoulful13

29 / F / Straight / Single

New York, New York

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 6:37am
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m).
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Hmmm....

I am looking for my other half.
My partner in crime.
My Barak to my Michelle.
The dude I can fart by and laugh when he catches a wiff...
The man who rub my feet after a long day of school or work.
The handsome man who will argue with me and love me long time after.
I want to be his best friend, lover and biggest support system.

This queen is looking for her king...
What I’m doing with my life
I am trying to construct a real sense of identity without using pre-assigned labels and roles that society has given to me.

I just got into graduate school and I am in an accelerated program to get my masters in education. I will be a certified general Ed and special Ed social studies teachers for grades 5 to 12.

So with that said, busting my ass with papers and observation hours.

Also volunteering with teaching art in a community center in Harlem.
I’m really good at
- using my imagination
- making fettachini
- singing in the shower
- being optimistic
- making my bed
- making duct tape wallets
The first things people usually notice about me
my smile...since I have dimples.

Or as one of my former student's called them..."face craters"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: LOTR, Girl Interrupted, The Bell Jar, Their Eyes Were Watching God, The Chronicles of Narnia, Motorcycle Diaries, Fudge A Mania, Tuesdays with Morrie, The Giving Tree, Dreams of My Father, The Autobiography of Malcolm X, and any poetry written by Langston Hughes

Oh yah...reading and almost done with the Celestine Prophecy. One of the best books, I have read in the past 3 years.

Movies: 10 Things I Hate About You, Why Did I Get Married, Pulp Fiction, Fight Club, The Color Purple, Ray, To Kill a Mockingbird, 21 Grams, Raising Victor Vargas, Gladiator, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Sun, 300, Knights Tale, The Patriot, Do the Right thing, 16 Candles, The Diary of a Mad Black Woman, Death Proof. Save the Last Dance, Little Miss Sunshine, Anywhere But Here, Riding in Cars with Boys, What Dreams May Come & last but not least Ferris Bueller's Day Off

Music: Stevie Wonder, Lauryn Hill, Common, Erykah Badu, Fat Boy Slim, Outkast, Al Green, Maroon 5, Jill Scott, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Marvin Gaye, T.I, Jay Z, Usher, Coldplay, Third Eye Blind, John Mayer, Pink, Beyonce, Tribe Called Quest, Floetry, Lupe Fiasco, Kayne West, Jimmy Eats World, The Roots, Alicia Keys, and John Legend
(basically I just looked at the recently played on my ipod)

Food: Thai, Italian, Soul Food, American...and sometimes just an old school cheeseburger and fries.
The six things I could never do without
Man Upstairs
Family/ friends
iPhone
Sense of humor
Creativity
Stevie Wonder
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Who will be the award winning co-star for the wonderful production of my life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Anything I want to do. Usually Freestyle Fridays, then out somewhere. I am not picky. It's not the places I go but the friends who go with me. I have some pretty awesome friends
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
As a child, I was terrified of E.T

I still feel uncomfortable when I see him or pieces of the movie.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 26–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are passionate, creative and ambitious. You are addicted to possibilities and oncoming change.

You laugh, a lot and often.

And you love Stevie Wonder.

Lastly, you have a heart and still know how to use it.