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34 M Los Angeles, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:04pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Very often
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Hmmm. I feel like I've answered so many of these and somehow text can never fully describe me. If this thing or whatever works, then shouldn't a lot of this be a little inconsequential? I don't know. We'll find out soon enough, I guess, right?

I am understated, underestimated, and cinematic
What I’m doing with my life
"secretarial engineer" ... not the most illustrious job, but it pays the bills.
I’m really good at
Being myself. Being an original. Confusing others. Confusing myself. Offending others.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes. Sense of humor (if you get it).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
(a) On Love. A Lover's Discourse. (b) Boogie Nights. Magnolia. Punch-Drunk Love. Hard Eight. (c) Ed Harcourt. Aimee Mann. Rufus Wainwright. Sondre Lerche. Hawksley Workman. Esthero. Big music fan so mmmmmmmany more I could list... (d) Chinese. Mexican.

...and let me share with you two of my OKCupid "Favorite" pet peeves ... when asked what you like, don't say "all kinds" ... that is not a favorite. will i find an "all kinds" cd in your cd player or dvd on your shelf? then don't give me that answer trying to make sure you don't offend me or hit the lowest common denominator. have a little conviction and stand up for what you like.

also ... if it's your favorite ... please know how to spell it.
The six things I could never do without
Love, humor, friends, music, movies, television (if you're one of those anti-TV people...I'm totes not for you), books, internet. Okay, so I can't count.
On a typical Friday night I am
Passed out from a long week at work; at home, watching a movie/television; or enjoying a few happy hour cocktails out with friends :-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Oh Jesus, I don't know. This is a public space. I'll save the private stuff for more personal interactions. You give everything away for free and no one's going to be interested in buying the milk.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 21–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You think I'm cool. You think I'm not cool. Either way works for me...but preferably the former.