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I’m looking for
- Ages 21–35
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Apr 23
- Queer, Sapiosexual, Pansexual
- 6′ 2″ (1.88m)
- Body type
- Used up
- Strictly other
- Atheism, and laughing about it
- Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
- Dropped out of space camp
- Art / Music / Writing
- More than $1,000,000
- Open relationship
- Strictly non-monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), Yiddish (Poorly), Other (Okay)
My name is Joe. I am queer and non-monogamous (or, more accurately, I tend to roll towards what some folks call "relationship anarchy" - wiki that shit).
I am a professional musician. I have tons of hearing damage. There is a causal correlation in those statements.
I am very pragmatic and reasonable, I swear. That said, I like to act really satanic and rock n' roll, because that's fun. Hail Satan.
I pretty much don't message people on here, because the internet is not real, but I do get excited when I get messages.
Movies: Mike Leigh's Naked, Jaws, David Lynch, John Waters, anything animated or stop-motion.
Don't watch much TV, but I get along with the X-Files.
Music: I love everything about music. Favorite music changes daily. Loud is good. Noisy is good. Intellectual is good. Tin Hat Trio is the best band in the world, but they're not punx enough for me when I walk to the store to buy juice.
Food: Cajun food, fancy beer.
I also collect strange antiques, bizarre old prints, bones, and other such ephemera.
Otherwise, I'm pretty good.
You like vintage guitars?
You want to argue about violence in art?
You thought I was someone else?
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