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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 17
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Post grad
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Portuguese (Somewhat), French (Somewhat), Chinese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
i'm originally from the midwest, i just finished grad school and moved back to nyc. i'm lookin to make new good-lookin friends.

We have to be patient with superdupercub; he thinks differently from us.
-my calculus teacher
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.

I shall take the heart... for brains do not make one happy, and happiness is the best thing in the world.
-The Tinman in The Wonderful Wizard of Oz by L. Frank Baum
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
middle school math
sleeping late
dirty text messages
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my big, red beard
i'll probably say that awkward, obvious thing that everyone else dances around.

You have such big, powerful legs.
-my spin instructor
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Movies: Sister Act, Women on the Verge of a Nervous Breakdown, Junebug, It's Easier for a Camel

Books: X-Men, The Rules of Attraction, Fear and Loathing

Periodicals: The New Yorker, Slate, Salon

Music: Erykah Badu, Little Big Town, Sugarland, Miranda Lambert, Sufjan Stevens, Joni Mitchell, Everything but the Girl, D'Angelo

Sincerity can be simple philistinism, intellectual narrowness.
- Susan Sontag, Notes on Camp
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- exercise (don't they say it's the gay temple?)
- talk radio (love political broadcasts, this american life, etc.)
- mexican food (tastes like sunshine)
- porn (spices up those lonely nights)
- music (country, folk)
- wikipedia (it knows so much ...)
- my camera (i do architectural photo in my free time)
- my two cats (can i really only have six things?)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what kind of swans ugly ducklings become

Gateway: Logan, you sure are a cold son-of-a--
Logan: Yessir, I surely am. That's what comes o' bein short, hairy, and unloved ...
-Weapon X #4,, Age of Apocalypse Epic
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
We're all friends on the surface, where it counts.
-Grace Adler, Will & Grace
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You'd rather be right than happy.
-Nico, my shrink, sometime during 2004
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
emotionally, i tend to look for guys who are witty and insightful, but also patient, kind, affectionate, reliable.
i'd like someone with whom to make common cause, a partner in crime, an ally.
if you're looking for a good conversation, drop me a line, and let's see if we hit it off.