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35 • Indianapolis, IN • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 21–33
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 13
- 6′ 0″ (1.83m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Graduated from university
- Strictly monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
- English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
As I get older I find out that true happiness is not in how much I make or how many degrees I have or how big my house is or how fancy my car is. It's finding peace and joy and a calmness in my life that is soon coming the most important thing to me. Family are what matters to me, love is what matters to me. Things that are of quality, not quantity...
I am at the stage of life that I would like to find someone special to settle down. I feel grateful to have a IT job in the health care industry that is actually meaningful and allows me to make contributions to the children's health care systems in Indiana. I also run a property management business on the side.
Originally born in Shanghai and lived there until high school, then moved to Indy and stayed 10 years here. I can speak English and Chinese extremely fluently and I can understand some Spanish and some other languages. I am very outgoing and easy to get along with.
Some of my interests include karate, piano, dancing, traveling, museum, hunting, swimming, video gaming, reading, Tai chi, fitness, Yoga, public speaking, weight lifting, investing, concert etc.
A bit about relationships... I think a long term relationship works when two people enjoy a lot of the same activities, have similar values and expectations from life, and can make each other laugh. With those things plus patience, respect, and a mutual willingness to work through the hard parts, you have the makings for a lasting and rewarding relationship. The rest seems too complicated to say in words (at least in this little box) but seems to depend a lot on chemistry and timing...
I am very Intelligent, Goal-oriented, and Talented
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