My goal is to find a stable and loving long term relationship that
hopefully would last decades and decades... The traits I value in a
possible future spouse would include intelligent, honesty,
integrity, responsibility, cheerfulness, lovingness, capability,
As I get older I find out that true happiness is not in how much I
make or how many degrees I have or how big my house is or how fancy
my car is. It's finding peace and joy and a calmness in my life
that is soon coming the most important thing to me. Family are what
matters to me, love is what matters to me. Things that are of
quality, not quantity...
I am at the stage of life that I would like to find someone special
to settle down. I feel grateful to have a IT job in the health care
industry that is actually meaningful and allows me to make
contributions to the children's health care systems in Indiana. I
also run a property management business on the side.
Originally born in Shanghai and lived there until high school, then
moved to Indy and stayed 10 years here. I can speak English and
Chinese extremely fluently and I can understand some Spanish and
some other languages. I am very outgoing and easy to get along
Some of my interests include karate, piano, dancing, traveling,
museum, hunting, swimming, video gaming, reading, Tai chi, fitness,
Yoga, public speaking, weight lifting, investing, concert
A bit about relationships... I think a long term relationship works
when two people enjoy a lot of the same activities, have similar
values and expectations from life, and can make each other laugh.
With those things plus patience, respect, and a mutual willingness
to work through the hard parts, you have the makings for a lasting
and rewarding relationship. The rest seems too complicated to say
in words (at least in this little box) but seems to depend a lot on
chemistry and timing...
I am very Intelligent, Goal-oriented, and Talented
What I’m doing with my life
I have a great stable and meaningful IT job in the health care
industry that serves children. I am also running a property
management business on the side. Also I am taking some interesting
classes (Piano, Karate, Yoga, Yai Qi, Spanish etc) at IUPUI in my
spare time for self-improvement. I also love traveling, in the past
a couple of years I traveled outside Indiana / states at least once
a year, it's so wonderful to see the world!
I’m really good at
I am good at learning new things, great listener and communicator,
excellent people skills, a lot of different interests,
Goal-oriented and know what I want in life... and of course a big
warm heart !
The first things people usually notice about me
Tall, Outgoing and a BIG charming smile!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Too many to list, just a few that I really like -- "How to Win
Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie and "Rich Dad, Poor
Dad" by Robert Kiyosaki. I also love a lot of different kinds of
movies and music, as long as those are meaning ful and not the
extremely loud type. I am not a picky eater at all and enjoy food
from different cultures.
The six things I could never do without
Exercises, Freedom, Learning, Passion, Family and friends,
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What can I do to make my life more meaningful, what my goals are
and how to achieve them.
On a typical Friday night I am
Meaningful book, good movie, concert, museum, excerising, eating
out with friends etc.
You should message me if
you are looking for a great guy for a rewarding long-term