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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 21-45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 10:58am
Heteroflexible, Questioning
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Average build
Atheism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Relationship anarchist and general thinking about stuff-er.
Looking to meet new friends with benefits - with the emphasis on the friends as opposed to just the benefits. For instance, people to hang out with for games/drinks/movies/amateur philosophy with an option for mutual butt-touching should we feel that way inclined at the time.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working hospo by night, crafting/gaming/reading/napping by day.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Games. Making things into games that usually aren't games. And then winning them. But in a nice way.
Being roguish and charming.
Learning, and being open to hearing and changing if you think I'm wrong and I come to agree.
Helping around the house. Like when I do the dishes while my girlfriend writes this part of my profile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I'm a real fiend for fantasy & sci fi but love a good non-fiction too. Robert Jordan, George R R Martin, Raymond Feist, Anthony Bourdain, Bill Bryson, Steven Erikson, Peter F Hamilton, Raymond Chandler, Neal Stephenson, Iain M Banks.

Movies: love a good heist caper or something espionage-y with plenty of double crossing. Also appreciate the off beat, festival and cult. Wes Anderson, Quentin Tarantino, Rocky Horror, The Evil Dead, The Warriors (the film, not the team), The Princess Bride, Daniel Craig as Bond.

Music: I have pretty varied tastes although hard rock/heavy metal will always be my fave. The Sword, Horse the Band, Wu-tang, Beastie Boys, Tom Waits, Black Sabbath, Primus, Mastodon, Devo, Dethklok, Eagles of Death Metal, Queens of the Stone Age, Electric Six, Kitty Daisy & Lewis, Noisia, The Ramones, White Zombie, Weezer, Bal-Sagoth, Action Bronson, Lazerhawk.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Teh interwebs.
A good book.
Sugary treats.
People watching.
Games of some description.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How other people think (or perhaps more accurately, whether they do at all). What goes on in their minds and how do they make the decisions and come to the opinions that they do?
Also butts.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working. Though were I not I'd likely be finding somewhere new and exciting to put food and wine in my face.
You should message me if
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If you're looking for an entertaining friend to flirt with and crush on.
You're down with the fact I date other people - or even better - do so yourself.
You work nights - this would make time management infinitely easier.
Or if you're a bear. I'm bear-curious.