I'm a pretty quiet guy who enjoys staying in or hanging out with small groups. I'm shy, but once I get to know someone I tend to open up quite a bit. After they get to know me, people say I have a good sense of humor. I am also a very sexual person, and if there's some chemistry, a possible FWB or casual sex situation will not be turned away.

When comfortable, I don't hold back, generally making my thoughts and intentions known. I am in a very loving polyamorous marriage and looking for another relationship. I'm very new to the scene and generally confused. I will still consider this online dating experiment a "victory" if I can make a few new friends. If a new relationship comes out of it, that's icing on the cake.

I ride a motorcycle, though not an impressive one. It's a great starter bike, but I'll be looking to upgrade sometime in the next year. I don't know a ton about them, but I find it interesting enough that I'll have a conversation about it. I just don't intend for biking to take over my life. It's an economical mode of transportation and occasionally a good way for me to clear my head. That's about it!

I love gaming. I play video games/MMOs and the like. I've also been dabbling in board gaming and table top gaming with my wife and her couple. I'm enjoying it quite a bit, though I'm still learning. I'm not the most active person, but I do like to play football, baseball, basketball when there are enough people to play with (hasn't happened in awhile). I also watch Football and Hockey on TV every chance I get.

I spend a lot of time at work and with my family. I am the Director of Client Services, Marketing and Business Development for a Direct Mail shop south of Washington DC. I enjoy my job and working in Management, but I'm always looking for ways to improve my career.

One way I'm doing that is by going back to school to finish my degree. Between Work, School, Wife and 2 kids and my generally introverted demeanor, it makes it very difficult to "go to a bar" and meet people...that and most other Poly-friendly dating sites suck...or want money. Thanks, OKC (Free plugs kick ass).

While my time is short, I am ready to and willing to make time for the right person (or people). I just need to get to know you, first!

Listening and offering advice. Though, I'm generally too shy to follow my own advice, especially when it comes to relationships.

I'm good at gaming in general and learning new things about said games...so even if I've never played it before, have some patience and I'll learn. That process is usually pretty fun.

Sex. OK, that might be pushing it, and I'm not saying that I have a ton of experience...but my everyone I've been with says I'm good at it *Buddy Christ Thumbs Up with a wink*

I'm not the most noticeable person out there, but when people bother to take notice of me, they say they like my eyes.

I'll eat just about anything. My wife is a fantastic cook, so I have that going for me.

I don't get much time to read with all that's going on...if I have a choice between reading a book or gaming, I generally choose gaming.

I like many genres of music, but my favorite is classic rock. I don't care at all for country. Music that I enjoy listening to (In between love and hate):

Alternative Rock
Classical
Jazz
Dubstep
Pop/Hip Hop/R & B (Though this is more of a toleration than a like for me 'cause my wife likes it).

Family, Sports, Games.

Lately though, it's finding people for me to hang out with. Most of my friends are more of my wife's friends...either way I'm spending more time alone than I'd like. This has begun to dominate my thought process and likely will continue until I get some traction.

At home with the kids, gaming. We sometimes have other families with kids over, let their kids crash in our guest room so we can be grown ups while they sleep.

I'm poly. That's private enough in this society...

you find me interesting...or even if you don't. Just don't heckle me, I won't dignify that with a response.

DO NOT BOTHER if you don't want to be in a relationship with a married man. I will choose my wife over anyone who makes me make a choice. I'm really looking forward to developing that level of commitment with a second woman.