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  • Ages 20–38
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Last online
Feb 22
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
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My self-summary
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Politics & prose.
What I’m doing with my life
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Keeping what works, trashing the things that suck.

Working at farmers markets and wondering why people work shitty jobs they're miserable at in order to buy things they don't need.

Trying to 'figure it out' and realizing there's nothing to actually 'figure out'

Writing prose that make no sense and reading them out loud.

Trying not to take myself so seriously.

It's all one big cosmic joke...
I’m really good at
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Flirting. Pontificating. Theorizing. Socializing. Improvising. Procrastinating. Rolling spliffs. Yelling about patriarchical organization, feminism and the folly of (neoliberal) capitalism. Smoking too many cigarettes.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Sometimes, I'm really dapper... Usually I'm a pretty femme.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Cultural Inclinations:

Act up!, Asco, CADA, Galindo, Mendieta.

Body art
Street art
Performance art

The Production of Space, Society of the Spectacle, Work of Art in the Age, Disidentification, Queer Temporality, dialectical materialism.

Cat's Cradle, Jitterbug Perfume, Special Topics in Calamity Physics, Vurt, Antwerp, Fun Home

Alan Watts, Wendy O-Matik.
The Alchemist, The Ethical Slut

Tout Va Bien, Labyrinth, Fata Morgana, Twin Peaks, The Princess Bride, Thelma and Louise

Fleetwood Mac, Stevie, Bowie, Beyoncé, Austra,
DP, CCR, xxyyxx, Kate Bush, Jose Gonzalez, Mount Kimbie, Drake.

Things that grow out of the ground.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Historicity, perception, androgyny, social performance, personal dynamics, geography, "the future", privilege, gentrification, synchronicity, magic, nature/urbanity, radical love, 'polyamory'.

How to find some level of balance is this overwhelmingly contradictory world.

& my lack of interest in subscribing to check-a-box notions of sexuality or gender binaries.
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You're a babe.