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31 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 15
Hispanic / Latin
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Working on masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), French (Okay), German (Okay), Portuguese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Side note: I highly dislike labels. The fact that your orientation isn't something you can write in bothers me. "Straight, Bisexual, Gay" are very limiting options.. And let's not get into why straight in and of itself is problematic. <---- but I hear Okcupid is finally working on this! :)

A cool, calm, and collected transman 🚺➡️🚹. Just checking things out. I've been a member here for so long I'm a moderator 😂😂😂 haven't been on in a while though, so I'll try to be better about checking messages.

I'm smart and nerdy. I have a philosophy Bachelor's degree and just finished my Master's in social work. I have 4 languages and want to learn more.

I play lots of things...I play chess :) I'm obsessed with my wii, specifically my rockband games all 8 of them, but I love all the interative play with it. I'm a martial artist and also play ice hockey and am a goalie, so you can say I'm pretty hard core ;)

People say I'm funny and animated. I make a lot of facial expressions and love to make people laugh.

I'm a theater techie. I work on lights and backstage stuff and carpentry and I worked some cool concerts in the past... Justin Timberlake/Pink, Kanye West/Keyshia Cole, Aerosmith...Rolling Stones... Keith Urban...Bob Dylan... amongst other stuff... Journey as well... I can't remember most of them...

I also work with adolescents and young adults. My job is in the social services field. I help young people with resumes, applying to school, helping them with their people skills and providing them a space to be safe and socialize. I also do some short term therapy and safety planning with. I also do a lot of Power, Privilege, & Oppression education with them.
What I’m doing with my life
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As mentioned above, I am a social worker.

I have two jobs. I mention them above!

I follow my passions, so you wont catch me working somewhere where i don't love my job :)

I plan on pursuing my PhD at some point and working towards traveling to facilitate at conferences... present curricula and ideas to centers. I want to be involved in program development and implementation. I also want to be a motivational speaker/trainer of trainers. I want to be a part of the movement of putting youth work on the map as a legit field of practice. I also want to write and publish articles and stuff. :) I'm a nerd... A cool nerd! Like my page and you'll know more about the stuff I do.

I was honored as an "LGBT Emerging Leader under 30" at the White House. And I am receiving an award for my dedication and advocacy work in the Trans* community. I hope to continue doing the work that I do with my community! I'm on my way to following my dreams! Yay!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
everything... lol jk...

I am good at cooking. I have to eat gluten free and therefore that requires a lot of thought and planning, so that I don't get sick.

I am a good friend and I try to always be there to support the people in my life.

I am good at cars. Let me explain... I have owned 2 cars in my life and I would fix them when they would break. I taught myself about mechanics, so that I wouldn't have to always take it in and spend madd money at a mechanic. I've done everything from simple stuff like installing my new fog lights when the old ones got effed up to difficult things like changing hoses and doing a full coolant flush of the engine and taking apart my interior to install my dvd player and stuff. I love cars!
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have been told my smile and my eyes.

Then they def notice me sense of humor. I love to joke around and be silly.

The recent one is how much I do. I get the, "What don't you do" question a lot...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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LeGuin's "The Lathe of Heaven", Lamott's "Bird by Bird", Saint-Exupery's "Le Petit Prince", Kant's "Critique of Pure Reason", Baldwin's "The Fire Next Time"

Dirty Dancing and Beaches. Those are the top 2, but I also love anything with Angelina Jolie :) I love Billy Elliot, Better Than Chocolate, Make The Yuletide Gay, Tomboy, Romeos, Transamerica... and many many other queer films

Scandal, House of Cards, How to Get Away with Murder, Family Guy, American Dad, Degrassi, South of Nowhere, Spongebob, Fairly Odd Parents, Law & Order, Harry's Law, Single Ladies, Cleveland Show.. etc.

I'll give everything a chance, but I can't say i like EVERYTHING... My fave lately has been Linkin Park, Muse, Xtina, Eminem, Queens of the Stone Age, Lady Gaga, Chevelle, Red, Radiohead, P!nk..

I'm Dominican so platanos all the way. I'm not a fan of fast food. As I mentioned before, I eat gluten free, so i have a limited, yet not limited diet.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My testosterone
My humor
My electronics
My closest friends
My willingness/ability to fight for what's right
My son (even though, he's not biologically mine...if you have questions ask)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either working or in bed cause I work on sat morning. If im free, maybe playing rockband with my best buds, or out at at a bar or something, or hanging with my boo (if I have one)... watching movies, things like that :) playing with my dog!
You should message me if
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If you want to make a friend 😁

If you wanna kick it! Hit up a bar, watch sports, play video games, etc. 👍

If you are respectful.

NOW IF you aren't sure what that means here are some examples of what NOT to do:

"So wait, you were born a girl??? Do you have a pussy or a dick?" -- a. How rude b. None of your business c. Do you go around asking people about their body parts?

"I bet I can have you in a pink dress and making me breakfast in the morning..." --- Um... no just no....

I'm sick of who write me on some "fantasy" or "fetish" type of thing or on some entitlement flow, like I owe them an explanation. Just because I'm Trans*, doesn't mean I'm just down for whatever. So please, come correct or don't come at all...