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surelyyoujest

32 New York, NY Genderqueer, Man

Genderqueer, Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Dec 13
Orientation
Queer, Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Aries
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Student
Income
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Non-monogamous
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Sign Language (Poorly), C++ (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I'm a geek, an atheist, and a skeptic. I do read books and don't watch sports. I like math and weird, avant-garde music. I’m very tactile and kinesthetic. I’m an introvert, but not a loner - to me, happiness stems not from what I do, but who I do it with. Shared experiences are what make my life worth living.

I practice ethical non-monogamy, which to me means building relationships on love, respect, and trust, but not on exclusivity. I'm mostly straight, though most of my friends and partners since college have been queer. I guess I'm skeptical of anyone who has never felt the need to question the status quo.
What I’m doing with my life
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I used to manage computers for a living, but now I’m back in school for massage therapy. It’s much more satisfying. (Working as a sysadmin is kind of like being the goalie on a soccer team... no matter how great you are you'll never get the credit for winning the game for your team, but if your team loses you know you'll take the blame!)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like lots of different books, movies, music, and food. Also podcasts, comics, games, and plays. I don't really have favorites, because I like variety more than any one thing. I like indie flicks and summer blockbusters; high literature and mass-market sci-fi. If the media I like have one thing in common, it’s that they surprise me, often by making me laugh and/or think.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Let’s be honest - online dating sucks. I don’t like spending hours carefully composing thoughtful, intelligent messages to strangers who probably aren’t interested, and I bet you don’t like wading through an inbox of lazy, arrogant, entitled guys.

How about an alternative? If we like each other's profiles, let’s meet in person and see if we hit it off. An easy, casual, low-pressure date to see if we want to get to know each other. If you’d like that, send me a message. “Hi” is sufficient - no need to be clever if you just want to let your profile speak for itself.
You should message me if
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You are kind, sincere, caring, honest, and intellectually inclined. Geeks and nerds turn me on. You like talking about big ideas like politics and philosophy, even with someone who disagrees with you. You like to be challenged and to step outside your comfort zone in search of exciting new ideas and experiences. You don't smoke - at least, not tobacco. You like to cook and would enjoy crafting wonderful meals together. (Or even better - you don't like to cook, and would rather have me cook, and you'll clean up afterwards!)