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surfer77

35 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:30am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Libra
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Korean (Okay), Spanish (Poorly), Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
We live by the choices that we make and I want to experience all there is to experience in this life. I'm enamored by the new experiences of cultures, foods, wine, and people. And I'm always interested in hearing other people's perception of this life. I'm a bit of a story teller and I've traveled to over 50+ countries around Europe, Asia, Africa, Middle East, Australia, South America, etc. I've also had a bunch of different jobs and interests that has lead me down a unique path and helped me acquire some useless but nonetheless interesting skills.

I'm looking for someone that is fun, loves life, has no drama and has a natural curiosity for things. She's not afraid to be herself, doesn't think she has it all figured, and wants to grow as a person.

I'm a confident, laid back, spontaneous and fun guy.

People on here want to get too serious too fast. Honestly, I'm traveling and working a lot these days so let's just keep it light for now. If you need more than that now, then probably best to pass.
What I’m doing with my life
Just started a stint in non profit trying to provide sustainable clean water solutions for developing communities. Incredibly challenging and exciting so far!

I also have a small business I started a few years back. It pretty much runs itself now so I don't do too much for it these days.
I’m really good at
Thinking outside the box. Fixing almost anything. Cooking. Eating. Dancing. My job...whatever it is at the time.
The first things people usually notice about me
Right now...the fact that I am either wearing rockstar sunglasses or wearing eye glasses with only one lens in it. I just got lasik, but I'm super paranoid about it so I did just my left eye first and doing the other soon if all stays well. So in order to not walk around all discombobulated, I popped one lens out of my glasses (since my doc won't let me wear contacts leading up to surgery). I taped my popped out lens inside the rockstar sunglasses they gave me (since the vision in both my eyes were the same). Don't make fun of me...it's my eyes peoples! It was a choice of either doing this or wearing a pirate patch...arrrr! Or getting a monocle...and of course I'd have to get a cane with it and be true to Mr. Peanut.

I have to say...when the machine suctions your eye ball to keep it in place...weird feeling...that's probably why they give you a valium before surgery.

Old post, so not wearing sunglasses everywhere, but I'm keeping the story in here cause it is still telling of my persona.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Reading Leaving the Atocha Station now. I like Murakami books. Life of Pi, The Alchemist. I read more non-fiction before.

I'm a film buff so too many to list. I like films across genres from blockbusters to indie and foreign.

TV. I only started watching tv in the last couple years so have been trying to catch up. Game of Thrones, Breaking bad, Homeland, House of Cards.

Music...The Killers, XX, Explosions in the sky, Swedish House Mafia, MGMT, MX-80, U2, Stevie Ray Vaughn, Johnny Cash

I'm a foodie, like to try almost anything. The last strange thing I've eaten was probably in Mongolia when they killed a goat in front of me, made some stew, gave me lots of vodka, and sliced up a giant rat as appetizer (they left the paws on!). Then I think I rode a horse backwards or something...that Mongolian vodka is dangerous stuff.
The six things I could never do without
1. Pandora
2. memory foam mattress (it's like sleeping on a cloud...but not really cause in skydiving generally you fall right through and you feel a little wet after...it's not like that.)
3. my kitchen (I like to cook)
4. my man bag or murse (you can make fun because I'm confident in my masculinity and it's the most useful thing ever),
5. my dslr camera.
6. Passport
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to make a jellyfish tank. It's more complex than you would think. But I will get it done.

Also, I don't spend a lot of time thinking about this, but it is a wonderment. I noticed a LOT of girls on here say not to write them if the guy mixes up "they're", "there", and "their" or "your" and "you're". I actually am pretty good about that...but really? So if a guy is good looking, smart, funny, etc., but he makes a common spelling error occasionally that is a deal breaker? Also, if you say it on your profile, then won't that make him check it twice before sending it...and then you would be deceived because maybe he always messes it up, but he just fixed it for you. What if you were to get married and then find out after that he is grammatically incorrect?! Oh the horror! Ha. If you are offended by this then you should either not take me so seriously or get a little thicker skin. If you are a little embarrassed right now, then you probably should be a little...but good for you for admitting it. ;)
On a typical Friday night I am
Trying to find my nemesis. This is the real reason I am on here. Instead of looking for the girl that is a 100% match I'm looking for the one that is a 0% match and 100% enemy. It's better to keep your enemies close. She's out there (I type with scorn in my eye)...and I will find her...
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you have any thoughts on this..."can birds be malicious?". There is a parking spot outside my house that is under a tree and there are a kazillion birds that live in it. If you park under it your car will be covered with probably 30-40 droppings, every night. But when there is no car there, there are no droppings on the asphalt. What gives? On another recent occasion, a bird attacked me...swooped down and hit me in the ass and then came back around for another hit. It may have been hitting on me cause usually animals love me, but it hurt. So what gives?

You can message me if you don't have thoughts on this, too. Ha.