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surfinthru2

55 M Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 44–59
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jul 3
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and laughing about it
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of masters program
Job
Medicine
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Okay), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I enjoy being active and would love to meet someone to either hike, bike, dance, or work out with.

I am interested in science, politics, cultures, religions and the points where they intersect.

I am sometimes silly and playful and at other times overly serious. Lately I've been more serious, and realize I need to focusing my social life to find more reasons to smile and laugh.

Would love to meet a special someone who wants to share laughter, break bread with friends, and dance in the kitchen--the living room or where wherever else the spirit moves.

Would love to meet someone who is adventurous, somehow involved--or interested in being involved in making the world a better place--on a volunteer or professional level.
What I’m doing with my life
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Most of my life's work has been in the area of community, church, and social services. Developing innovative programs serving disenfranchised populations that often fell thru the cracks. This included teen run-aways, battered women, homeless families, and AIDS patients.

I have been involved w/ a number of non profits, working on the Board Of Directors of agencies serving the mentally ill and dual diagnosis clients, and homeless families. I've developed and managed innovative pilot-programs that have shaped national domestic policy on employment development, education, & homelessness.

I have lately been going through a career transition. Have been trying to get into a nursing program. I have been working in hospice to gain a little experience while applying to schools, and supporting my mom after she suffered a mild stroke and the passing of my dad last year. It actually has been a bit grueling year.

I am hoping to focus a little more on myself in the personal relationship dept. I love to laugh,dance, and have been known to sing on occasion.

More to come...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking up a storm... I love learning new dishes and experimenting with flavors. I am currently playing w/ Thai and Indian seasonings.

Being a good listener. I am fascinated w/ what motivates and inspires people. I am highly empathetic. It makes me very compassionate and sensitive.

I'm creative. I am good at finding new ways of doing things. I love challenges.
More to come hopefully soon.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I can be a little shy at first. Im not afraid to roll up my sleeves and get to work. I work w/ a whole heart. I'm a caring and welcoming person.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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TV:
Glee
Fringe
PBS

RADIO:
NPR

MOVIES: include dramas comedy, sci-fi.
Fav's Chocolate, all the Rings, StarTrek, and Star Wars Trilogies, The Piano--I actually found it disturbing--in a good way. ( gotta go; tbc)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to make a difference in the world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Being thankful its Friday!

Often involved at church. Or at home unwinding. Or getting ready to go up to Davis to visit my mom.
You should message me if
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If anything in my profile resonated with you. If you are, like me, kind, respectful, playful, know how to love, share, communicate, be patient, and forgive when appropriate.
If you would like to find more love in your life through a significant other or just as a friend.