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49 Clackamas, OR Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–53
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 11:01am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Not at all
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Chinese (Okay), Japanese (Poorly), Malay (Okay)
My self-summary
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I would like to think I am emotionally available. I would like to think I am spacious enough to allow in a beloved, to know my greatest strength is to grow within in each other's presence. I believe I have to be the change I seek, and that I am anchored in my being without any need to rely solely on doing. I believe Love is simply seeing each fully, properly- even in the naked but vulnerable truth of where we are at (and not who we are).
What I’m doing with my life
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My highest and most passionate purpose is to bring change. I am currently taking advantage of a recent change to move (although grudgingly) into the most fearful place- the place of Being the Change I seek. I am working on an Intentional Curriculum of workshops. I am staring at the wall of Doubt, but I am taking each brick on at a time. Meanwhile I have my renegade Law business, and Fly fishing school as a cushion.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Blowing down sandcastles, and sticking around to hear the backlash. This may sound harsh, but there is something noble and structurally stable waiting in the ruins. I know from my hard fought past that the time for the feather is long past with the current existential state we are in. I subscribe to the thinking that Compassion is the creative way to awaken another. Of course, the balm has to be humor.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Here is a recent text testimonial: 'I like your scent, energy, and body language, your touch, laugh, eyes, and smile, thru all mention, as you breath, its like the wind, it touches souls in unexpected directions, and humans either choose to flow in the waves, or fight against it and drown. You are the waves'

Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I think anything that is moving (except food that makes you run to the border).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Knowing my subjective experience is perversely my ticket to liberation
Beyond thought...
I can't count beyond 5.....
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I always wonder how I can be a better bridge, a lighthouse caretaker, to facilitate in Ascension into Enlightened consciousness. I wonder if there is a female spiritual warrior-not a hardened combatant, but one who has transcended within into her Divine Feminine- who is willing to wear her Spiritual C4 vest pack into the front trenches with me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If there is spiritual work, this comes first. If not Salsa dancing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I can be a huge flirt. But it is harmless as I talked 2 older ladies into inviting me over for dinner whenever they cooked Roti and Goat curry.
You should message me if
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you believe that love is not gazing at each other, but rather gazing out together.