hi, I've been single a while, going through a divorce (nearly there I hope!), and have had a couple of disasters since, but am still ever the optimist!
I like a laugh, I am honest, genuine, care about people and their feelings, and don't mess people about, pretending to be someone I am not.
I don't put on an act, that is far too exhausting and impossible to keep going for very long!
I just want to be with someone who wants the same kind of thing, and isn't afraid to show it!

at the moment, I am just being a mum, and working hard, and hoping to find someone I can be myself with.
Too much to ask? I hope not!

laughing, especially at myself!
listening....and talking!

I have absolutely no idea! you will have to tell me lol.

too many films to mention, but here's a few:
the colour purple
edward scissorhands
beaches (hey i'm a girl!!)
true romance
dusk til dawn
rocky 4 (love most of them, but thats my favourite lol)
expendables 2 (again, love them both, but oh my god, it just doesn't get any better than sly and bruce fighting baddies together....in the same film?? thank you and goodnight!)
iron man 1 & 2 (robert downey jr in that suit?? who saw that one coming!!?)
avengers assemble (i really do have a bit of a hero complex lol)

loads more, but that will do for now!

my kids
insulin (I'm a type one diabetic!)
my bike (i'm not a serious cyclist or anything, but my bike means a lot to me)
my friends (real and virtual lol)
films! I love films, more than chocolate!
oh yeah...chocolate haha

what the future may hold, will I find what I am looking for?

with my kids or preparing for work the following morning!

You aren't just looking for something casual. been there done that, not interested!
You are not a young guy just wanting to do the ''older woman'' thing, lol. I'm flattered, but again, not really interested ;).
You are taller than me, sorry, don't mean to sound awful, but I need a man to be taller, I dont have many weird things, but that is one of them I'm afraid.
You don't smoke, I was married to a very heavy smoker, and its put me off for life! I hate smoke, and couldn't be with a smoker.
You want a genuine woman who has lived life but is still raring to go!