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53 M London, UK

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 40–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Not at all
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
English, French (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Incidentally, girls you are -welcome- to write. I will not usually write to you because I understand that my choices and lifestyle may seem bizarre or even offensive. But you are quite welcome and I will answer questions as well, if, for example, you have had a partner who was like me.

I'm a person that has considered transitioning but (for a variety of reasons) has not. Here's quite a good guide to modern transgender terminology and attitudes:

I'm well educated, well read, polite, discreet and tasteful. I lived in France for most of my life and speak fluent French and now live in the east end of London (and sometimes in France too). I'm interested in music, art and technology and (sometimes) mixtures of all three.

I'm small (about 5'7''), small build about 62kg, brown eyes, nice legs, girl shaped, pretty much completely hairless, most of my facial hair is lasered as well. Most of these pictures are taken without much make-up, on the other hand there are a few more lines than show up here!

Here are some favourite authors, Haruki Murakami, James Lee Burke, Thomas Pynchon, Flann O'Brien, James Sallis, George Pellecanos, Tom Disch (Camp Concentration), Alfred Bester, Simon Raven, Neal Stephenson, John Sladek and (some of) William Gibson. That's right, I DO need to get out you see any unifying threads here? write to me...

I'll add some as I think of them. As for music, I tend to like modern folk, folk rock (John Martyn just died, great shame, Bert Jansch died too recently, possibly the most underated guitarist ever except maybe Lenny Breau), the blues (from Robert Johnson up to Stevie Ray Vaughn, via Hendrix) and odd things like Pearls before Swine, Third Ear Band and Joanna Newsom. I like people who can write songs also, Dylan, Joni Mitchell, Leonard Cohen, Tom Waits, for example.

My own music has two 'threads' a sort of bluesy, jazzy one and an ambient instrumental one using non-standard tunings like open G and Davey Graham's DADGAD. I can't seem to combine them, so they drift off in their own sweet ways.

I was a scientist and am still a computer scientist, amazing how many of these are t-girls, bits and bytes and hormones. I lived nearly on the street for a while, when young and did a few things that young girls sometimes do to survive, so in spite of a poshish veneer, I've lived a little.

Also, I'm a lifelong friend of Bill, look that up, you'll find out what it is, not the masons, anyway.

I am ambiguous, sensual, and refined
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Waiting for Mr, Mrs or Ms Right or Wrong (especially wrong, haha).

Actually that's not really true, probably I'd prefer to find a female partner that enjoys both the person and the t-girl, yes, both are enjoyable!

I like guys but wouldn't want to live with one, hey, I do already, in some ways. Why didn't I think of that, sometime ago?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
This is a terrible question isn't it, so un-British...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm elegant and pass pretty well, usually. The laser and electrolysis have helped. The secret is not to be 6' and then go out in a mini-skirt, fishnets and a Dolly Parton size wig, that's what usually gives t-girls away.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like pretty much all food but I don't like pretention, Conran and TV chefs, for example.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
MAC, books, guitar, Topshop, Primark, books (again), I'm deeply superficial
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Getting older
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm still slightly in love with a school friend, but it's decades later, obviously I have letting-go issues.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You feel comfortable about t-girls [even in public] and understand that there is a person as well underneath the dress.

You shouldn't message me just out of curiosity about t-girls. You shouldn't message me, if you describe yourself as a straight guy. If you fancy me, you're not and IT'S OKAY but don't delude yourself.

Please don't 'wink' either I like words, even if they aren't the right ones..