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40 • Marlborough, MA • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 28–45
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 21
- 5′ 4″ (1.63m)
- Body type
- Graduated from masters program
- Rather not say
- Likes dogs and has cats
I'm trained as a therapist but decided I'm better at helping students in more concrete ways through education while addressing their emotional struggles when needed. I have worked in education for over a decade, and I love helping kids.
I've always wanted to work at a boarding school after seeing Dead Poet's Society and attending a prep school myself. Socially, it's a huge change and it gets lonely sometimes - particularly after I had such a vibrant social life in Boston. But in terms of my career, it has been a great move.
And luckily, Boston is a short drive away!
Remembering what people were wearing and where they sat
Referring to movie scenes while botching the quotations
Petting dogs and snuggling with cats
I smile alot.
I wear bright clothes.
I like to ask questions.
I like fun but I also have an angsty side.
I majored in Russian Lit in undergrad and still love anything Russian.
I will always love Six Feet Under, Party Down, and Bored to Death. Six Feet Under has impacted me most out of any show I've ever watched. Bought myself the box set last spring.
Thinking about attending Boston Calling again this year, though I discovered you can watch the show for free if you stand close enough to the Government Center T stop.
Darron Aronofsky, Noah Baumbach, Lynne Shelton, Mark Duplass (other privileged white people who create films about white people problems), Alexander Payne, PT Anderson. I suck. What can I say. We need more movies directed by neurotic people of color.
daily interaction with fluffy animal friends
my noise machine - I like to sleep to the sound of rain
I lose socks, which is one reason I prefer to wear skirts (no socks required).
I like Spaghettios with meatballs. I will bike to different convenient stores to find the aforementioned (must have meatballs!) at 2am if the craving strikes.
You don't consider reading fiction to be a waste of time.
You're over your ex enough to start something new.
You want to find a relationship that is energy giving rather than energy sucking.
You are already a happy person, and aren't looking for anyone to fix you.
You want to go on long bike rides, but you don't mind that I don't wear spandex or those clip on shoes.
You want to ski or snowboard this winter.
You can give me a tour of the 'burbs to help me find non-chain restaurants.
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