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40 Marlborough, MA Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30–45
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
May 20
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body type
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Likes dogs and has cats
My self-summary
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I'm moving back to Boston this summer! Woot!

Recently I underwent a major lifestyle change by moving to the 'burbs after over a decade of living in Boston to accept my dream job. I'm still adjusting and I would love to get a tour of life through a driver's vs. cyclist's perspective! I bought a car, but I'm so used to city living -- it's tough to adjust.
What I’m doing with my life
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I now work at a boarding school as a faculty member; I'm a learning specialist, a dorm parent, a drama coach, and a farm hand.

I'm trained as a therapist but decided I'm better at helping students in more concrete ways through education while addressing their emotional struggles when needed. I have worked in education for over a decade, and I love helping kids.

I've always wanted to work at a boarding school after seeing Dead Poet's Society and attending a prep school myself. Socially, it's a huge change and it gets lonely sometimes - particularly after I had such a vibrant social life in Boston. But in terms of my career, it has been a great move.

And luckily, Boston is a short drive away!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Planning theme parties
Remembering what people were wearing and where they sat
Referring to movie scenes while botching the quotations
Petting dogs and snuggling with cats
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I love talking about at least 5 things at once.
I smile alot.
I wear bright clothes.
I like to ask questions.
I like fun but I also have an angsty side.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Goldfinch was the best book I read last year.

I majored in Russian Lit in undergrad and still love anything Russian.

I will always love Six Feet Under, Party Down, and Bored to Death. Six Feet Under has impacted me most out of any show I've ever watched. Bought myself the box set last spring.

Thinking about attending Boston Calling again this year, though I discovered you can watch the show for free if you stand close enough to the Government Center T stop.

Darron Aronofsky, Noah Baumbach, Lynne Shelton, Mark Duplass (other privileged white people who create films about white people problems), Alexander Payne, PT Anderson. I suck. What can I say. We need more movies directed by neurotic people of color.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.

daily interaction with fluffy animal friends

my bike


my noise machine - I like to sleep to the sound of rain

I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
whether breakfast really is the most important meal of the day.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
being newly boring or exploring my new surroundings

The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am left-handed and sometimes my handwriting is only legible by me.

I lose socks, which is one reason I prefer to wear skirts (no socks required).

I like Spaghettios with meatballs. I will bike to different convenient stores to find the aforementioned (must have meatballs!) at 2am if the craving strikes.
You should message me if
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You have a goofy streak. I find kind hearted pranks and silliness irresistible.
You don't consider reading fiction to be a waste of time.
You're over your ex enough to start something new.
You want to find a relationship that is energy giving rather than energy sucking.
You are already a happy person, and aren't looking for anyone to fix you.
You want to go on long bike rides, but you don't mind that I don't wear spandex or those clip on shoes.
You want to ski or snowboard this winter.
You can give me a tour of the 'burbs to help me find non-chain restaurants.