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39 Birmingham, UK Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 3:02pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Mostly other
Not at all
Atheism, and laughing about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from two-year college
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have a veneer of mainstream, of "normality" but scratch the surface and unleash what's inside and your in for a surprise. I have a playful & loving personality.

I am reserved in public, fun in private, and not what you expect, and yes rather unconventional in relationships - I am polyamorous - and that means everyone involved with me knows about everything.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am particularly enjoying writing my fortnightly input in to a computing magazine, and trying to do more, along with actually managing to do some drawing at some point, and more photography.

You might enjoy:
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Looking after people.

On the spot decisions, trouble shooting, that kinda thing. Having plans in my head for almost every eventuality, and ability to make one for the ones that I have none for already.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am the quiet one at the back making sure everyone is ok. You make eye contact and realise I have deep brown eyes that you will lose your free will to if you aren't careful.

Don't be careful.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Aww now that would remove far too many things to talk about.

However to fulfill Staff Robots field flags: Smallville, Amiga, Blu-ray, Retro Gaming, Star Trek and Transformers. You see Transformers there - that means G1, proper stuff not those abominations that got made recently for cinematic release.

Oh in case you missed it above i did enjoy Hot Fuzz immensely too :D
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Technology (c'est un geek), the written word (I find it far easier to use emails and text than the phone... but I much prefer face to face contact), communication capabilities (I need to know whats going on), female company (prefer it to male company), human touch (I believe the term is "cuddleslut";)), friends (not the TV show, though I don't mind it).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Things of a kinky nature. Things of a Business nature. Things of geeky natures.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
wondering what I should do... and whether I can get away with having sushi for dinner!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hmmmm I am not sure revealing anything here would be a partiularly good idea... read between the lines and see if you want to ask anything ;)

Recently out of one very major long-term relationship with my other having altered to something completely non-sexual. Not currently in what you would term a sexual relationship at all.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want a friend who could be more.... or a Dom... or both.

Oh and if you can't cope with the concepts of kink and polyamoury/polyamory we probably won't get on.