I have a veneer of mainstream, of "normality" but scratch the surface and unleash what's inside and your in for a surprise. I have a playful & loving personality. Those understanding and in agreement with the concept of IDIC will fare best. (Feel free to ask ;))

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New info - apparently I am an existentialist. Bizarrely it took someone else noticing that and tell me for me to realise that facet of my own existence ;)

I am particularly enjoying writing my fortnightly input in to a computing magazine, and just trying to find spare time to do more, along with actually managing to do some drawing at some point, and more photography.

You might enjoy:
http://svenof9.deviantart.com/

Looking after people.

On the spot decisions, trouble shooting, that kinda thing.

Controlling myself (too good at that it is alleged ;)).

I am the quiet one at the back making sure everyone is ok. You make eye contact and realise I have deep brown eyes that you will lose your free will to if you aren't careful.

Seriously... assuming you stick around for more than 5 minutes after seeing me rather than running away in shock after assuming I'd be some little weedy thing like out of the old Mr Muscle ads. Nope. Look at the bloody photos already! (Please insert appropriate profanity in either Klingon, Romulan, or Cardassian here.)

I have lost weight since they last saw me a year or two ago.

I don't get much time to read these days, but previous fave included The Hobbit, Lord of the Rings and the James Blish Star Trek novelisations. Hopefully reading is something I will be able to do more of as time goes on.

Cinematically, my fave movies have to be the original (1986) TransFormers: The Movie, Police Academy (original), Star Trek: First Contact, Superman: The Movie, and other geeky stuff. TV wise I love Smallville, partial to Dr Who (particulaly when Daleks or Cybermen are involved and it's written well), love Next Gen and Classic Trek (especially the new Blu-rays... wow). I did rather enjoy the new Trek movie too...

Music wise, I have no right to say anything apparently... as my rather strange taste for remixes of old game theme tunes puts anyone off my PSP playlist usually (which to be fair includes some trance, cinematic soundtracks, A-ha, but doesn't include any of my guilty pleasures as I would really have the mick extracted at work if they got played.) Dare and The Touch... Yeah :)

Food wise I like oriental cuisine and some seafood, though I am willing to try anything I can at least once.

From My Facebook Profile:

Books: The Hobbit
The Lord Of the Rings (got to re-read that as I have forgotten most of it)
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Movies: Star Trek: First Contact, Superman (The Movie), Police Academy, Star Trek II: The Wrath Of Khan..

TV Shows: Smallville, Star Trek, Star Trek: The Next Generation, Star Trek: Deep Space Nine, Doctor Who... looking forward to the Amy Pond... I mean Matt Smith era....

Music: almost anything genre wise..

Technology, the written word, communication capabilities, female company, human touch, G1 (I know...).

How to get top the goals I set myself. The big picture. Getting Michael Bay to step away from that which he has turned into an abomination in a quiet and peacful manner.

Wanting to go out, but knowing I can't as its very likely I will be working the next day. Wondering why alcohol has an effect on me that makes me less fun, but tiredness has the opposite effect as long as I have body fuel of some kind.

I am VERY playful ;) But very few people have experienced that side of me. The terms BDSM and polyamory have meaning in my life

The above two terms don't have you running for the hills or filling with hate and anger. You are very open minded and open to new things in general.