I am sort of high maintenance because I do have high expectations of anyone in my life. If I let you in, then I expect your best just like I will give you mine. I want what is best for people and honestly care about those in my life so that's just how it is. I believe when you are in any type of relationship: parents, kids, friends, dating, or otherwise you have to be ALL IN . ALL THE WAY TO THE END. The way to get there: Loyalty, Honesty and Communication!!!
I believe in fate and also in soul mates. All things happen for a reason. I have been in love, been heartbroken and unfortunately been the heart breaker at times. I believe in giving all you have to everyone in your life but sometimes it isn't good enough & people grow everyday, sometimes together and sometimes apart.
I've learned and matured on all the mistakes that I've made in my life. Sometimes you look back on the things you expected and the things you neglected and when you realize your faults in the relationship it's too late and your out of time. As you you mature as an adult and learned about yourself and your faults and you feel your finally grounded. Then its time your ready to enjoy to let someone else in your life.But you also realize you cant just focus your love on just your mate but her kids as well you need to love and respect everyones feelings and opinions in your relationship especially yours and her children.While I firmly believe that beauty comes from within, I do think you have to have some sort of mutual attraction in a dating atmosphere. Chemistry is the heartbeat of any relationship if you are lucky enough to find it, you better hang on tight. There is no denying it and theres no turning back. It's about trying to enjoy each other with love and respect and letting things go. I find that by respecting who you love for who they are. This is so crucial because you're not gonna ask for certain changes out of that person and tamper with if you have one a genuine chemistry. This is the part in your relationship were attitudes change and you find a level of maturity in your mate which can turn you on or off. Honestly though if soulmates do exist there will be minor adjustments you both make within each other for your relationship. This is were I believe you'll succeed cause you'll still be highly attracted to one another which is the most important for great chemistry. Then remember you will make to the end if you start the foundation of the relationship with the main three ingredients loyalty, honesty and communication !!!! If this doesn't sound to complicated for you, well I'm waiting?