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30 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 24–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

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Last online
Today – 11:58am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Tamil (Fluently), Hindi (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Being authentic, genuine and independent is something I often strive towards. Self improvement and expanding my boundaries are my everyday goals. I am fascinated by the external world of nature and cosmos and equally intrigued by the internal world of the psyche. My day job involves working for a company that is trying to bring sustainability to some of the largest retail chains in the world. Conscious consumption is high on my list of virtues. Creatively, I'm a musician. You can checkout my songs here ( Also I enjoy climbing walls and lifting weights.

Humor is spice of life. I gravitate towards people who can share laughs with me. People who can make fun of themselves are the ones who I think know the secret to life. I avoid people who have a large ego, who are always loud and want to dominate the conversation. I strive to be confident, grounded and balanced in my persona, not cocky. I was also chosen as TIME Magazine's Person Of The Year in 2006, I consider that one to be one of my proudest achievements.
What I’m doing with my life
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Discovering the various phases of life and becoming wiser through time. Figuring out the answers to the eternal questions by living, learning and reflecting. I love meeting new and interesting people. Even if we can't be foolishly romantic partners, we would still be good friends.

I'm undergoing a year long program on life coaching and counseling. Looking forward to what I can learn from it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I tend to open up quicker than the average guy and pretty soon can hook you into an interesting conversation. Legend has it that I'm one of the most chill guys you'll ever meet (usually). Despite this I'm very driven towards my goals.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People say that I'm a warm person and that I have a philosophical sense of humor. I also get complimented a lot on my nose ring.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I read a lot of non-fiction and articles. I'm very interested in psychology and human behavior. Most favorite authors include Kerouac, Jung, Nietzsche, Camus, Sartre, Joe Campbell, Sri Aurobindo, Murakami, Eckhart Tolle, Patti Smith's Just Kids, Hunter S Thompson. My all time favorite book/poetry is Gibran's The Prophet,
Favorite book from 2014: Acid Test: LSD, Ecstasy, and the Power to Heal by Tom Shroder.

Seminal bands like The Velvet Underground, Nirvana, The Clash, Fugazi, Television, Pavement, The Beatles, Panda Bear, Cocteau Twins, Pink Floyd, The Smiths, Tool, The Cure, M83... and the bands that they have inspired. Minimal techno, tech house. And dark/drone/noise music, the likes of Haxan Cloak, Ben Frost, Fuck Buttons. Kind of late to the party but I just discovered FKA Twigs. She's been on repeat in my head.

I'm obsessed with films. I enjoy Tarkovsky, Bergman, Linklater, Godard, Kubrick, Fellini, Resnais, Rohmer, Woody Allen, Cassavettes, Lars Von Trier, Louis Malle. This list is beyond the scope of this profile.

Broad City.

Ethiopian. And a good salad can make my day (Mixt Greens for lunch?). I'm also natural at south Indian cooking. Let's get together and whip out some fluffy idlis from scratch.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I cannot imagine a life without music and exercise.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Human condition, Infinity, Social justice, homelessness, mental Illnesses, The Archetypes, The Unknown, the nature of existence, fate of the world, death and dying, fate of humanity, your momma.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having dinner with my gang. Cocktails with the said gang. Making music, watching a TED talk, climbing, Karaoke, dancing on streets, planning my weekend getaway. Stargazing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You should message me if
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You have a good wit and know how to flirt (with everything and everyone). You are not on AutoPilot most of the time. And you and are curious about the mysteries of Life.

உனக்கு தமிழ் பேச தெரியுமஂ
(You can speak tamil)