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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 22–30
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Feb 6, 2013
Asian, White
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly), Chinese (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a completely normal and sane man who can read and write and behave like an adult. Apparently we're rare on OKCupid?

I just moved back to CA from New Orleans, and might be regretting it.

Newly minted not-at-all-stuffy attorney. Was doing philosophy and crit theory/creative writing before law school.

I ride a '72 Honda CL350, home-home is a ranch, dual citizen, lived in New Orleans, New York, Paris (a few times), Newport Beach, Santa Ana, and now SF
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.

Waivering between making a lot of money at a massive stodgy law firm, or doing the people's work.

Or just leaving it all and sailing to the world's best dive spots
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Thinking, fixing things, being on time
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm tall
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
A Farewell to Arms, La Chute, Howl, Catcher in the Rye, The Sun Also Rises [super depressing if you read it for a second time after living in Paris with American expatriates], Down and Out in Paris and London, Harry Potter

Legends of the Fall, Jeremiah Johnson, most of the Bond movies, Godfather I, II, Amelie, Grisham movies, Enemy at the Gates, Love Actually, Rear Window

Downton Abbey, Black Books, Arrested Development, Little Britain, Wheeler Dealers, the first two seasons of the OC

Neil Young, Creedence Clearwater Revival, Robert Johnson, Django Reinhardt, the Lumineers, Led Zeppelin, and a lot of pop that I can't name. I really want to like Taylor Swift, but I just can't do it.

Strange food, spicy food, dim sum (I speak enough Mandarin to run up a bill), pizza, thoughtfully crafted fancy food, really cheap food
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Socket Wrenches
Chicory coffee
Corrected Vision
Well-made boots
Fountain pens
A well-fitting cheap suit that I don't have to stress over keeping in good condition
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Efficiency, which is ironically extremely inefficient

Also, the fact that STALE is to STEAL as 89475 is to ...... 89547, does nobody else get this? Am I missing something?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Arguing with my friends about gender normativity, or the social value of "The OC"
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm worried that be an attorney scares people away?

I like spinning.....
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Oh, I don't really care what your intentions are.......

Here's an altogether too serious answer:

You're funny, smart, attractive, don't take life too seriously, and hold yourself to high standards.

You're not settled, but enjoy stability.

You have given serious consideration to dropping your life, and running away on a potentially endless adventure.

You enjoy long conversations, aren't offended by intellectual confrontation, and are able to argue for something you don't believe in just to balance points of view.