Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Please dont let anything im going to say scare you, or make you
want to run away. I always say dont judge a book by its cover. So
dont judge me purely on my looks, or purely on my circumstance. At
least get to know me or crack open that book and read a few pages
before you decide that book isnt right for you. You never know that
book might just surprise you :-D. With that said here we go.
Im an INFJ for those that pay attention to that sort of thing.
Well I am a mom to a wonderful boy who is seven. With that said let
me also say that having him and being young has made me gain more
maturity than most girls my age. I am also a very old soul. I think
its a good thing and I will not go back for anything. I am just
looking for a friend and companion who can provide the things I
cant provide for myself like, good company, someone to talk to and
eventually someone to love. I have what some might consider an odd
living situation; however it is what is best for my son at the
moment. Things can change so don't get hung up on the shallow
stuff. I currently live with and coparent with my son's father. As
odd as as this might seem it's an awesome setup. We both get the
opportunity to see our son daily and we both have a life separate
from each other. There is no intimacy which seems to be a common
question I get. Please feel free to ask me anything about it. I can
promise that I am worth getting to know. Even if you only gain a
great friend. I am extremely compassionate, caring and very non
judgmental. I am also unbelievably understanding and loving. I am
quite the romantic too. I am much better at answering your
questions then trying to think of what to type. So feel free to
write me and ask me anything.
I work full time on post helping soldiers. I have been here in
Lawton for 8 years. Before Lawton I spent most of my life growing
up in South Carolina.
Also on the my details section. I love astrology however I am not
crazy with it and I don't base my life on it. I also don't expect
my partner to get into it unless they want to. I am a firm believer
that while you should have some things in common it is perfectly
fine to have somethings that are just your own interests to keep
some sense of uniqueness. I believe that two people should be whole
people who come together to strengthen each other and bring out the
best in one another. Not two half people trying to find someone to
complete them and fill a void. You have to know you and be able to
stand by yourself before you can stand with someone else.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am currently working full time and am attending school full time.
I am also trying to be the best mother that I can be to my son.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening and helping those around me.
I am also really good at caring for my son. He is my world.
I'm a really good problem solver and I am very logical.
Baking cupcakes. If you're lucky maybe ill bake you some sometime
Being romantic. I dont think that you have to always spend a lot of
money to show you care. Sometimes its about the little things. Like
Good morning texts, and little notes found in around your place or
car or just anything that might be unexpected.
Being retro. I have a huge obsession with retro looks.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile and or my eyes. Lately it's been my appearance in general
as I have been dressing up in a retro stlye.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like most movies, not really big on horror because i am quite the
chicken. If you're willing to hold my hand and let me bury my face
in your chest when I get scared then I might sit through one for
I love all music but I really enjoy country, oldies, pop and the
blend station on the sirius radio :-D.
I can be quite the picky eater however I can go almost anywhere and
find something that I like to eat so don't worry about that.
Everyone serves chicken :-D
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My son he is my world.
Love- All the experiences in life are more enjoyable with someone
by your side to share them with
Romance- I am still old fashion and I need romance in my life. That
doesn't mean I need someone to constantly buy me things. Romance
for me is very broad and its just something that comes from the
heart. There are so many romantic gestures just to let someone know
you're thinking of them or you appreciate them. Like good morning
My phone- I am an avid texter :)
Music- Music is food for the soul
I know this makes six and seven. But I cant live without my
Southern sweet tea and Boiled Peanuts.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Anything and Everything.
I am a romantic and spend a lot of time thinking about wanting to
grow old with someone and wanting to marry my best friend when I
My son. Who is he going to be when he grows up? Am I doing
everything in my power to make sure he successful and has the tools
to be a wonderful, responsible and caring adult.
Wondering if I was born in the wrong era :( Sometimes I feel like I
dont belong or fit in, in todays world. I can be very forward
thinking in a lot of ways but in just as many I am old fashioned. I
have been told many a times I act like an old southern belle with
southern hospitality and charm. I just like manners and being
polite. I dont think you can ever have enough of it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
As of lately I am usually home with my son. We usually just rent
movies and order a pizza. Or do pizza and play a board game. I love
to go out to the movies and dinner. I also enjoy on once in a blue
moon going to the club. Most of all though I like just spending
time with someone who I can talk to and relate too. Ultimately
someone who I view is my best friend.
I would love to spend some Friday nights cuddling on the couch with
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It wouldnt be very private if I posted it on here for everyone to
see now would it?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Chances are if I viewed your profile I did like you but im very old
fashioned and shy, or you recently viewed me :-D. If you want to
get to know someone who, is full of compassion for others and
nonjudgemental and when she feels that friendship/relationship
bond, would go to the ends of the earth to make you feel special
then message me. So often today we are rushed, busy and forget that
we can change a person's day with the smallest encounter. The
smallest things can mean the world to someone. My dare to you, even
if you don't message me, is to take the time to brighten someone's
day because you never know what their life has been like. Stop and
say hello, ask how they are, just smile, or buy that cup of coffee
for that complete stranger behind you. Then watch how you can
improve their day and yours by such simple acts that we forget
because we get consumed in the hustle. To many people looking for
what's in it for me. Let me tell you that unbridled joy that you
bring to someone else is an indescribable feeling.
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