Job or friends is not an excuse
***Yes I know I have a long profile, I put a lot of thought into this process, and finding that elusive connection is like finding a needle in the haystack. But if your not up to reading the whole thing then go to the bottom and see what I'm not looking for. lol
NOTE: Asking for a hookup, swapping pics, sexting will get you blocked.
WHERE I'M FROM ----> About me, I have lived most of my life in California, Silicon Valley and Southern California, I've been in Delaware now for about 6 yrs.
RELATIONSHIPS ----> I am looking for a relationship, I'm ready, I miss having a connection with someone, and getting those butterfly's when looking forward to seeing them, I don't want to rush into anything, it has to flow at a natural pace. I would like them to be easy going, I like someone that isn't blunt but can get their point across gently and doesn't like arguing or bickering or force their opinions on people.
I am looking for a connection, a chemistry between us, that unexplained feeling that you get when you see that person, and your stomach flutters. I so want my stomach to flutter again. ; )
WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR --------> I would like someone that is stable, mentally and financially, and by that I mean you don't have to be rich, I just want you responsible with your money and take care of business, I like nice things but I'm not materialistic if that makes sense. People are much more important to me then things.
On the top of my list I love, adore, wit and good banter, please challenge me, and if you use the phrase "oh ok" a lot it will never work.
MUST have mutual attraction********
MUST be a cuddler...see next paragraph.
ARE YOU A CUDDLER?? ---------> I LOVE to cuddle, hug, kiss and hold hands when walking and come up behind u and wrap my arms around ur waist and see whatcha doing and pull u in for a kiss . I love romantic dinners, sunsets, candles, snuggling while watching a movie.
SEX -------> Guy's I understand you are a sexual being, and sex is very important to you,trust me I love sex too but, if you lead with sexual innuendo's, and push the intimacy to soon, you will turn me off. It's because women on these dating sites are getting a ton of pervy emails from guys looking for sex only. So they make it harder for the nice guys like you that really want a relationship.
FUN STUFF I LIKE TO DO ------------> I am very happy to spend time at home, or go to the movies, I love trying restaurants, I enjoy live music and I like dancing, I like bookstores, antiquing, festivals or just out etc. or anything you're into, I like trying new things, and I enjoy cooking and I am pretty darn good at it.
I love being active, but the most important thing is the person I'm with, not what we are doing, I am very down to earth and enjoy camping, fishing, walks, and on the flip side I enjoy the fine arts, ballet, plays, musicals, concerts, museums, concerts, traveling, I've been to Hawaii, Mexico, Canada, and driven across country in an RV. I am very comfortable in jeans or dressing up.
FAMILY ----------> I have a grown son, that is living in Japan, he is my pride and joy, and if you have kids that is fine, raising children is the most important job in the world and I understand if u have kids it's a package deal. I would enjoy the step mom role.
SPIRITUALITY/PERSONAL GROWTH ----------> I believe in personal growth. I have learned a lot about myself over the years, and hope u have to. Mind, body, spirit is important to me and keeping a balance. You can be of any faith, I respect all religions.
I tend to be a logical person, intellectual and philosophical imaginative, lucid thinker, self motivator, blindly optimistic,and I am a goal setter and typically achieve the goals I put down for myself. I have a serious side, but mostly I am a lot of fun, and love to joke and laugh.
I am a huge animal fan, and LOVE dogs.
WHAT I'M NOT LOOKING FOR -----------> Ok If you list your interests as sports, Harley's, Nascar, country music, and that your a simple guy, or that your not afraid to speak your mind (usually at someone else's expense) then no offense but I really don't think we would be a good match for each other. I prefer a confident, but easy going, thoughtful guy that can stimulate my mind thru conversation, and not lead with sexual innuendo's. NOT NOT NOT here to hookup, or have sexual conversations over the phone or thru txts. Don't be surprised if you get blocked.