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55 Chicago, IL Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 46–58
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 4:44pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from two-year college
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I suppose I think in terms of myself as an endless work in progress. Life is always changing and progressing as are we. There is always more to learn and more to experience and I guess you could say I am always seeking knowledge, truth and awareness . I am endlessly intrigued about the mysteries of life the workings of the human mind how people think and the universe in and of itself. I like and enjoy positive people and I choose to keep my focus on the positive things, that is not to say that I ignore or am unaware of negative realities and often tragic aspects that surround us, but I do believe happiness is a choice and in the power of positive thinking and being.

As for the basics I am an intelligent woman, easy going, playful, and open minded so I enjoy all types of activities. I try to be as conscious as possible in regards to health and well being, exercise, diet etc. I do enjoy going out but can be equally happy staying in. I love music, soulful house and jazz are at the top of my list these days but like and appreciate many other genres as well. I have a great love of nature, enjoy the arts and cultural events, good movies, dining out, and cooking to name a few. I always appreciate my free time no matter what I may or may not be doing.

What am I looking for... No matter what I say or describe it would be somewhat flawed due to the missing element of face to face interaction, when looking at a photo and reading a narrative it is easy to think one may or may not fit the criteria. There is something to be said for the common phrase.. looks good on paper. There is no replacement for the natural things that take place when interacting in person. Nor do I personally feel it is able to be discovered or predetermined by a questionnaire that is filled out or by electronically determined compatibility. I do try to keep that in mind.

At the moment I am seeking something simple and uncomplicated as a place to begin. Your attracted to me, I'm attracted to you. Meeting in person and spending a little time doing whatever and feeling the freedom to just be yourself and have a little fun, without some kind of agenda.

I think most or some of us hope to find or meet someone that we experience that undeniable chemistry and energy. You are not just physically stimulated you are mentally engaged and there is a sense of excitement and delight. It is willing, and somewhat effortless and a completely mutual investment to be shared, it all just comes together in its natural element. That is what I want to experience and look forward to.
What I’m doing with my life
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Living it, learning, trying to be the best person I can be.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Maintaining an open mind, communication, observation, details, analysis, writing, awareness.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, they are rather unique right eye is blue and left eye is half blue and half brown.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I haven't read any books as of recent but generally prefer something enlightening, biographical or fact based. I enjoy a variety of movies. Soulful house, smooth jazz and R&B are probably at the top of my list but enjoy many other genres as well. I like all kinds of foods and cuisines.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can be better, live better, awareness.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing, appreciating the end of the work week, and the freedom of doing whatever I like.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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The operative word here being private, Think I will leave this for a more personal moment and setting.