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sweetdespair

24 / F / bisexual / Married

Springfield, Massachusetts

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Buddhism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Portuguese (Okay)

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I am quirky, sassy, and happy.

My Self-Summary

I am married to the wonderful Tbirdoc

Terms that describe me:
Anime/Manga Geek
Gamer
Student (and loving it!)
Writer
Singer
Computer nerd
Amazing

I will attempt to elaborate on all those terms

I am a huge fan of anime and manga. Some favorites are Naruto, Bleach, Fullmetal Alchemist, Deathnote, One Piece, Ouran High School Host Club and Prince of Tennis. I'm always looking for new stuff to watch or read, so any suggestions are welcomed. I also love talking about the stuff so feel free to message me if you want to geek with me.

I'm an all around gamer chick. I'm big into RPG and FPS video games and I love to table-top. Some games I've enjoyed are Half-life 1&2, the Zelda games, Final Fantasy games, Kingdom Hearts 1&2 and all 3 Halo games.

I am a student and I absolutely adore it. I used to be a Chemical Engineering student, but when I started getting closer to graduation I was being courted by several oil companies. I knew I wouldn't be able to resist the temptation so I ran away and decided to become a nurse. So now I get to help people AND not rape the planet. Hooray. I'm still a huge Chemisty geek though, so I'll never really escape my fascination with chemicals and blowing things up.

I love to write. I write poetry and I'm working on an urban fantasy novel. Eventually you will see me on your bookstore shelves and can say "I knew her when" ;)

Something I love and often subject other people to is my singing. I will compulsively sing along to any song I know the lyrics to. Thankfully I am at least good at singing, so I don't make anyone's ears bleed. I would love to do something with my singing eventually, but I'm aware that there are a million people out there more motivated than I am and better looking than I am who are more likely to do so. It's nice to think about, though.

I am a big computer nerd. I have built computers since I was 8, so I grew up playing with bits and pieces of computers. I don't know as much about them as I probably should, but I'm usually the go-to girl when friends have computer issues they can't address themselves.

LetjEros thinks I'm amazing. :)

Let's see what else . . . I love cooking and wish I had time to do it more often. I'm decent at cooking but I really shine at baking. I am fantastic with all things sweet and decadent. I have a fascination with sushi that probably weirds out people who have never had it before. It's hard to find good sushi, but when you do, it makes all the hard searching worthwhile. I'm not as dark as I look, although I enjoy most things goth. I'm actually a really happy person (as are a lot of other goth people), I just happen to like the subculture.

Another thing, I will from time to time reference The List. As you may or may not imagine, It is a list of things I want to do before I die.

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What I’m doing with my life

I'm a nursing student hoping to get into trauma nursing. I'd like to work for Baystate, Mass General or UMass Memorial. Eventually I plan to teach. Another goal I have is to get into psychiatric nursing. I'd like to work with mental health patients and also do some volunteer works at clinics.

I'm trying to get myself published. It's not something that's a priority right now but it will be after I finish school.

Slowly but surely crossing things off The List, and occasionally adding to It.

I’m really good at

Writing (though you wouldn't know it from my profile), singing, having fun and almost everything I'm willing to put the effort into

The first things people usually notice about me

Other than my piercings? Online it's usually that I like intelligent conversation, in person or on cam it's either my smile or my eyes, I get lots of comments on both.

beautiful expressive eyes-- tbirdoc

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My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: I like science fiction, some fantasy and some urban fantasy. Some authors I enjoy are Robert A. Heinlein, Laurell K. Hamilton, Robert Jordan, Orson Scott Card, J.K. Rowling and some others who escape me at the moment.

Movies: I like most anything that isn't murder porn. I'm a little picky with comedy, some stuff I just find stupid. My current favorite is The Dark Knight, but my tastes change a lot.

Music: I love music. I'll listen to pretty much anything except most modern country. Some groups that leap to mind are- Tool, Mudvayne, 10 Years, Breaking Benjamin, Killswitch Engage, Eminem, Apocalyptica and Talib Kweli.

Food: I love making and eating food. I love portuguese food and sushi the most, though.

The six things I could never do without

My laptop (Music and internet)
My library
My body pillow
My friends
Parker
And Of course, My Scott.
and dwype's incessant whining

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I spend a lot of time thinking about

What I want to write next.

I always have a song playing in my head. If you see my head bobbing to a beat without headphones, that's why.

On a typical Friday night I am

With friends, usually hanging out watching movies or doing something stupid and fun.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I am absurdly attracted to hair. I am willing to overlook a lot of things for nice hair, especially long hair on guys.

You should message me if

You think we have things in common. Or not in common. Or you want to argue with me. I don't bite and I love meeting new people.