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sweeterthanspit

22 Washington, DC Man

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 21–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:03am
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Leo, and it matters a lot
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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—Mostly a boy, and often soft. From the South and ready to deconstruct. Poet poet poet. Queer queer queer.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working at a primary school, applying to MFA programs, finding/creating creative structure outside of academia, looking for qool, qreative queers to be friends with and convince me that coming to DC wasn't the worst idea.

Trying to find the rad queer dance parties around town (not gay bars' dance nights... unless you're ready to see me barf glittery milk on someone's gym membership).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making soup, telling stories, raising the dead.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm actually a cartoon.

I'm trying to have a YouTube party.

I'm not looking at them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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We are not our consumption, but...

CA Conrad, Kimiko Hahn, Alison Bechdel, Ursula K LeGuin, Kate Bornstein, Natasha Trethaway, Nikki Giovanni, et al.

John Waters, Pedro Almodovar, Gregg Araki, Bruce La Bruce

The X Files, Game of Thrones, Twin Peaks, OITNB, but mostly cartoons that are not made for adults.

Been listening to that new Mykki B, as well as Guantanamo Baywatch, Hurray for the Riff Raff and My Gay Banjo a lot lately.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A side eye.
An overwhelming sense of self doubt, masked as calm reflection.
My stories.
A general musk.
The occasional party pizza.
My own mortality.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how militant tenderness, subversive sweetness and radical gentleness will destroy the american family once and for all.

how in the world anybody builds sustainable, healthy, creative lives.
Also this. All the fucking time:
http://gawker.com/5935845/kanye-west-is-better-at-his-job-than-i-am-at-mine-but-im-way-better-at-being-a-fake-ass-feminist
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
CYOA:

a)Shrouded in a cloud of fruit bats, glowing.

b)Filling my own boots with blood, looking for that one QTPOC run co-op pizza place. i swear it was just 3 blocks from their squat.

c)answering calls at your local sex line, "hello? hello? hello? I can't hear you, I can never hear you."
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've never been told to but have, for as long as I can remember, held my breath for road kill.
You should message me if
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You identify as queer, anti-racist, feminist, creative, academic, radical, stable, kinda stable, super cool, way cute, or any combination there of.

you recognize "guys who like guys" is a silly thing and a formality of an OkCupid account. "I'm looking for" lots of people, of varying genders.

You also want to be friends/do friendly things. Making out with cuties is fun and I'm sure I'd love to make out with you but if that'll happen let's let it happen in it's own time.

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