I am compassionate, intellectual, and introspective.
My Self-Summary
I promised long ago I would come back and put more effort into this
profile, and I still haven't done it. For now it's enough for you
to know that I'm just your average good girl, single mom, left wing
radical (ok maybe not quite), artsy but totally untalented,
bookworm, half mainstream half hippie girl next door who likes
hiking/camping, photography, festivals (Whole Earth, Hoes Down,
Earth Day, art fairs, etc.), discovering new/interesting
restaurants, good conversation, and just hanging out at home.
What I’m doing with my life
Good question. I'll let you know when I figure it out. The most
important task I have right now is raising my son. I've also
dedicated most of my working life to working in non profit and
education so I try to give back in that way. On a personal level
I'm focused on living in a way that is true to my values and my
heart, respecting myself, the world and those around me, doing as
little harm as possible, and living based on love instead of fear.
I’m really good at
Learning, writing (except this profile which I'm not happy with
yet), parenting, being patient, teaching. . .
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile, freckles, and wild curly hair.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
I have a hard time choosing favorites, which is why it has taken me
so long to get around to answering this particular question, and
why my answers will likley be vague, but here goes:
Books: I just finished In Defense of Food. Prior to that was
Reading Lolita in Tehran which I loved, as well as Raising Our
Children, Raising Ourselves, and a host of other parenting books. I
enjoyed Stand Up to the Madness by Amy/David Goodman. Other books I
love - Love in the Time of Cholera, Their Eyes Were Watching God,
Like Water For Chocolate, Into the Wild, Beloved, Shadows of Tender
Fury, Great Gatsby, Unconditional Parenting, and in general
anything along the lines of Chomsky, Zinn, hooks, etc.
Movies - I rarely watch movies and find that most people are
irritated by my lack of knowledge in that area. Not that I don't
enjoy a good movie once in a while, but it just doesn't occupy a
lot of space in my head. I tend to enjoy documentaries (think
Michael Moore), some chic flics, anything well done, and of course
the kid movies (Shrek, etc.).
Music - Again people tend to get frustrated by my knowledge here. I
love music and can appreciate a variety of styles, but my cd
collection is embarrassingly small but includes Bob Marley, Sheryl
Crow, Michael Franti, Fiji, Jackie Greene, and Jack Johnson. Just
think of it as an opportunity to enlighten me to whatever it is
that you love most. I'm pretty open minded, mostly.
Food - Anything good. I prefer local places over chains, but
specific style isn't as important. I love a good burrito although
I'm still searching for one here in Sac, anything spicy or full of
garlic and onions is good. . .restaurants that have impressed me so
far include Ernestos, Maloufs, and Tower Cafe.
The six things I could never do without
Aside from the obvious there isn't too much I couldn't do without,
at least for a period of time. My son is one exception. And some
kind of connection with nature. Human contact, affection, or at
least a good book.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I can use my life to it's full potential.
How I can raise my son to be the best person he can be.
What do I want to be when I grow up?
On a typical Friday night I am
Spending time with my son, then enjoying some peace and quiet,
maybe reading a book or writing. Thursday nights on the other hand
are my night off as far as mommy duty goes, so that's when you
might find me listening to poetry at Lunas or otherwise enjoying an
evening out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
I'm pretty open to talking about just about anything, but not so
much in public forums, so you'll just have to ask me yourself.
You should message me if
I'm open to talking to all kinds of people, so don't be afraid to
say hi. But we're most likely to get along if you're:
- Intelligent and aware.
- Excited about life and passionate about something.
- Value kindness and intelligence over material things.
- Enjoy interesting conversation or spirited debate.