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30 F Santa Clara, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:20am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and very serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly)

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What I’m doing with my life
I'm a teacher by trade, but what I'd like to say I'm doing with my life is making a difference. I work and conduct my life in true reflection of my values, and remind myself that happiness and fulfillment come first from within, and then can be shared with others.
I’m really good at
being me and enjoying it :)
The first things people usually notice about me
People usually notice that I'm always smiling. I have a positive energy and enjoy life.
And... probably that I'm super corny :P
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read all types of books... recently it's been Pillars of the Earth, Hunger Game Series, The Alchemist, classics like Ender's Game & The Hatchet, and newer randoms like The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night.
My favorite movies are definitely on the cheesier end... Love Actually, 50 First Dates, Frozen, Up, Toy Story 1,2 & 3 (actually most Disney/Pixar movies)... I also enjoy action and intelligent movies, but it's hard to call those my favorites :P
I have a few favorite TV shows right now. Big Bang Theory, The New Girl, Property Brothers, admittedly Duck Dynasty...and there's always those old sitcoms that I grew up with... Full House, Boy Meets World, Saved By The Bell, Friends, and yea... sometimes my guilty pleasure...The Nanny.
I love all music (especially the singable variety)...and I will confess that I sing in the car to everything. Some current favorites include Fun, Pink, Adele, Buble, Coldplay, Train, Phillip Phillips, and everything playing on KLOVE... see all kinds. Aside from the radio & singable stuff, I'm also very into jazz and classic piano. Kind of a concert goer too... it's all about the experiences.
And yummy food... hmm...I'm a huge sucker for fresh raw oysters, rare steak, really enjoy most seafood and fish (raw and cooked), all fresh fruits and veggies, and the ever classic grilled cheese and tomato bisque.
The six things I could never do without
1. Faith
2. Friends and Family
3. Hugs, Smiles, and Love
4. Good Conversation
5. SmartPhone
6. iPad (all my books are trapped in there)

and if I'm a allowed...
7. Music
8. Health
9. Hope
10. Intellect
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend a lot of time thinking about my goals and how to achieve them. I reflect on my past, my actions, and how to keep growing and move forward. I know I focus a lot on the future...but force myself to think and live in the present.

On a lighter note... I also spend a lot of time thinking about fun experiences I'd like to share with friends, family, and even a special someone. I want to enjoy life and leave this world knowing that I explored it, and knowing that I gave something back.

On a 'romantic' note...I think a lot about whether there's a man out there that is perfect for me...not a man that is the 'model of perfection' but a man that is 'perfect for me.' And I wonder if I'm perfect for someone out there... I know the world is big...there are lots of people, but we've already expanded into the great 'www' for more potentials...there's gotta be someone right?
On a typical Friday night I am
It's usually with friends, out to dinner, movies, game nights, hot-tubbing, or bonfires in the summer.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm pretty happy about being an awesome dork :) oh...and I find myself extremely attracted to good smelling men... yikes.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You should definitely make 'the move' if you're a Godly man interested in an incredibly sweet, intelligent, passionate and Christ-centered woman and actually want a relationship. I'm looking for that breed of old-school gentleman who knows how to treat a lady well, and by 'well' I don't mean spoiling...I mean with respect, chivalry, romance, and dare I say, love. If you're put-together, and interested in meeting your complement...then yes... Message me!