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47 Luton, UK Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 39-57
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 12:40pm
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Full figured
Atheism and laughing about it
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A recent conversation left me with an awesome tag line
"I want someone in my life... but not necessarily in my house"

How do people write this stuff without sounding like everyone else on the planet?
Is the inside of a person more important than the outside?

Outgoing introvert, Non-smoker(ex), loves to talk but likes the comfortable silences, Hard worker but laid back( mostly)
And I'm not a good mix with heavy boozers or potheads, sorry.
Things I like:my job, random conversations where we may get lost, travelling, reading fiction, although mainly paranormal or fantasy, whichever term you prefer, snuggling on the couch.

Apparently forthright is a good word to describe me although I am the most ridiculous mix of this and shyness, and the shy comes out at the strangest times.
However you will never have to be in doubt of what I'm thinking although you`re probably better off not asking unless you really want to know the answer.
I don't tell lies or try to mislead people and really don`t have any time for those that do.
I'm not interested in one night stands so if that's what you're looking for please don't waste my time or yours :)

Communication is absolutely key to an awesome relationship, I don't expect you to be in touch with me every day although its nice to know if someone is thinking about you. A quote I saw somewhere said it the best, Pursuit is the only proof of desire.

I should probably add in here that I am what is politely termed a big girl, if you want someone that is slender and elegant, well good luck and you should keep right on going.

And seeing that everyone's favourite activity is long romantic walks. ..I have arthritis in the knees which should be fixed within the next 18 months. . But it does mean walking and I do not exactly go together

Hmmmm where did "The most private thing your willing to admit go"?
Well in my case that would be that Im more interested in the B and a bit of the D and not at all in the S and the M. and that Im more of an s than a D

Apparently I have now been permitted by OKcupid to actually live in the town I actually live in!! ( Don`t ask)

The Ok cupid app is great but it does insist I'm on-line even when I'm not!

Oh and If we meet offline and you look nothing like your pics, you're buying me drinks until you do!

Edited 11/11/15
In some sort of insane fit i decided to delete all my old answers and start again, mainly because most of them were answered over the last few years while I didn't have a dating profile... I figured even I have probably changed a bit since then.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
This that and occasionally the other. I work, and work out, not as often as I should but oh well, sometimes theres more important things to do. I want to start writing the book in my head, but keep getting sidetracked.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being me, saying what i mean, having a go at things, even if Im really bad at them LOL. I can get on with virtually anybody and like to think Im a good listener.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hopefully that I`m standing in front of them.

And apparently my smile lights up a room.

I also get Ohhh you`re tall... I`m not THAT tall but ok for a woman I`m definitely not short, although I`m an inch taller in the morning than I am at night.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
anything and everything
action films
mostly anything except dark rap
anything i didnt have to cook
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my pc
my underwear
a washing machine
( i figured the obvious ones like food, water, air , chocolate cake and my family would be self evident)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why scammers bother... its not like its difficult to work out
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Catching up with friends, maybe having a glass of something...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You dont take yourself too seriously, and wont expect me to either
And vanilla isnt really your preferred flavour.