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sweetmercy46

63 / F / straight / Single

Phoenix, Arizona

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin
Height
5' 6" (1.67m).
Body Type
Fit
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Libra and it matters a lot
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has children
Pets
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Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My Self-Summary

Love to read, have fun, hike, dance, be with the man I love and do things with him. I exercise every day to keep my girlish figure. I love the ocean. Hawaii is one of my favorite destinations. I'm looking for a partner who is physically fit and believes that exercise is an important component of a healthy lifestyle. I don't smoke or drink but am lots of fun. One of my favorite places to dance is the Rhythm Room....great blues to move your soul. I'm a cradle Catholic but don't hold to much of the rigid dogma of the church. I do, however, have a strong faith that has been recently acquired as a gift of life circumstances.

What I’m doing with my life

I work with adults who love kids. I'm passionate about my work and don't consider it "work" but service to the poor. I work in the heart of the barrio and feel very blessed that I can share my gifts and talents with those I work with.

I’m really good at

I'm really good at solving problems and conflicts. I'm very calm in the face of fire and can think my way through many difficult situations without breaking a sweat.

I've raised 2 wonderful sons who are successful in their chosen careers. I get compliments about them all the time since they were children.

I'm not your typical grandma since my sons live very far from here but I do talk with the grandkids often and love to hear their stories.

The first things people usually notice about me

My energy and surprise when they find out how old I am. Everyone thinks I'm at least 10 years younger.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I just read The Secret Life of Bees and it was a wonderful story. Currently am hooked on Jodi Picoult novels and am just completing #4. I love jazz especially Diana Krall. Love to dance at the Rhythm Room. Just watched Must Love Dogs, about internet dating and it was hilarious. Love all kinds of fish.

The six things I could never do without

Love, my family, faith, fish, art, dancing and books. I know that's not six but who's counting.....

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Life.....what's it all about Alfie...this life. Earth school. Other dimensions. What makes people tick and trying to figure out how to make them more successful.

On a typical Friday night I am

Taking a nap....not...you'll have to get to know me to find out.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I killed my pet cat when I was five and was terribly depressed about it. I was trying to make sure he got fed before I went to school as my mother had asked. She had a cat phobia and did not want the cat bothering her during the day. My little 5 year old mind decided that putting him under a wooder barrel would keep him safe. I checked and light could be seen pouring in all around so I figured, he would get enough air during the night. In the morning when I turned over the barrel, he just layed there lifeless. I thought he was asleep but he was dead. I ran to my mom with the dead cat in my outstretched arms looking for sympathy. I got yelled at for being stupid. It took me many years to recover from the grief of that incident.

You should message me if

Want to grow into a beautiful relationship that will bring love and healing on the journey to a more enlighted way of living, of being with a partner.

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