I strive to be genuinely kind, warmhearted, and honest. Add to the
mix: slim, fit, sensual, and fun-loving with a somewhat irreverent
sense of humor. I am smart, too, and I think smart is sexy. I am
very active and playful, but I don't play emotional games. I seek
perhaps the elusive butterfly....a true and loyal friend,
companion, and playmate all rolled into one great guy! Please do
not smoke, but please be kind, smart, funny, and worthy of my
trust. What more can I say about me and what I seek, except that I
come with an "endorsement." My friends and my dog are just crazy
What I’m doing with my life
There's a quote from an old movie, to which I ascribe: "Life is a
banquet, and most poor s.o.b.'s are starving themselves to death."
I feast on life, seeking sweetness and playfulness. That said, I
also work very hard to make this world a better/kinder place.
I’m really good at
Cooking, laughing, being non-judgmental, finding/making sweetness
& fun, kissing (but I'll let you be the judge of this!), being
a good friend, listening, etc.
The first things people usually notice about me
the sparkle in my eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read lots of books and enjoy word puzzles, too. I'm a big movie
fan, particularly enjoying ones that make me think. I savor all
kinds of food, ethnic to continental. I love music, sans rap. l
sing, dance, and cook, and sometimes all at the same time!
The six things I could never do without
The beach & mountains (can we count these as 1 if I'm limited
to only 6 things?), great friends, dark chocolate, my adult
children, the warmth of sun on my skin, and hopefully... YOU!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I think about all kinds of things, from the divine to the truly
ridiculous! I think about "my world," and how grateful I am for
wonderful friends, great family, good health, etc. I also think
about things beyond my world, and I am deeply troubled by man's
increasing inhumanity to man.
On a typical Friday night I am
In the summer, my "typical" Friday night involves heading out to my
lake (Michigan) cottage usually with friends in tow.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Get to know me really well, and I'll gladly tell you!
You should message me if
Yes you should!