I like life. I like people who like life and celebrate it. Spending time with people who are always complaining is challenging. I don't mind identifying the problem but sure do appreciate getting to the solution if/whenever possible. Sometimes stuff just sucks and there is no fix ... beyond time. I think it's a useful skill to be able to sit through those sucky times without taking it out on others, and if that happens being able to own it pretty quickly and clean it up.
I don't have huge expectations of others, although I do kinda expect people to be somewhat polite and kind. or indifferent. Hostile and arrogant are right up there with complaining.
Humility is sexy. Kindness is sexy. Sexy is sexy. And I don't necessarily mean sexual. Just engaging and alluring and inviting.
I'm pretty committed to living big without being a grabby, greedy pig about it. Not large as in crazy consumption. But taking up all the space one person does when they tell the truth, live their passion and don't step on or take advantage of others.
I am serious, not overbearing, and good company.