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41 M Los Angeles, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:34am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Judaism, and laughing about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
Give me two scoops of simple and wonderful: Road trips that Steinbeck would have dug. Lunch counters with tight menus. Tweets of real birds. Stuff like that. Don't get me wrong, I'm not a Luddite. Far from it. I just don't want to miss the moment of now. And you'll miss it if you're looking down at that black rectangle in your hand all day long. Besides, walking into a light-pole sucks, even at 5 mph. Just saying.

I was born in Santa Barbara, but I've been here since the early 80s. Even if I can't claim LA nativity, I think that's a pretty swell combination.

Good poetry or tough detective fiction are always in decent proximity. A few people tell me that I've got something in my own writing, but I don't care since it will all end up in a steamer trunk, anyhow. Music is a memory-marker for me. It helps me accurately retrieve my memories. Thank you, music.

Oh yeah, getting away from the city is clutch decompression. So every few months, me and some friends watch the crazy stars out in the Mojave. I'm not a camping fiend, but I need to see the Milky Way galaxy frequently to remind me how silly our comic book religions, turf wars, and evaporating possessions are. That sounds heavy, but believe me, you'll bust out laughing if you go out there and let the stars show you that fundamental truth.
What I’m doing with my life
For dough? I'm sort of like an air-traffic controller for tons of expensive paper airplanes. When one of them crashes, no one gets hurt, but it can still cost a fortune.
I’m really good at
Recognition plates. I can recognize them. Fast.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I talk a bit different. The word-choice, metaphors-for-the-point, and the cadence. They belong to me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
"The Procrastinator" (Lee Morgan); "Hatful of Hollow" (The Smiths); "Daydream Nation" (Sonic Youth); "Nights of Ballads and Blues" (McCoy Tyner); "Damaged" (Black Flag); "Microcastle" (Deerhunter); "Night Dreamer" (Wayne Shorter); "Help" (Thee Oh Sees); "Fontessa" (Modern Jazz Quartet); "Seventeen Seconds" (The Cure); "Speak Like A Child" (Herbie Hancock); "The MSP Sessions" (The Misfits)

Day of the Locust (West); Freedom from the Known (Krishnamurti); The Back Country (Snyder); The Unexpected Universe (Eiseley); Oryx and Crake (Atwood); The Energy of Slaves (Cohen); Vurt (Noon); Way Station (Simak)
The six things I could never do without
Saturday morning. Certain friends & relatives. Good late night chats. Vin Scully's voice. Mechanical watches. Old jazz vinyl. But we've all got quite a bit. So let's be grateful.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Origins. Disruptive wave patterns. Empty parking lots. Street lights. Boundary layers. Future cones. Dogs with floppy ears.
On a typical Friday night I am
Come on now. Just like you, it's either potential or kinetic.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Until recently, I had no idea that a pony was just a member of any number of small horse breeds. I thought it was another "young horse descriptor" like colt or foal. Sorry horse (and pony) people.
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 32–41
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
If you should message me.

And if you're the girl from the first two stanzas of Dylan's Love Minus Zero / No Limit, just write 'it's me' and I'll respond in a jiffy.