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swimtome5

37 / F / Straight / Single

Redwood City, California

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 9:21am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Taurus and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Today's the day! It is the day that "you" arrived on my profile. It is the day that this warm, loving, ultra feminine yet strong woman will find you.
I am a hard working and I'd say driven woman. I'm ready for the next step, which is finding the man I want to spend my life with and have a family with. Is it an expectation for each date? Heck no! But ultimately that's what I would love for the future. First things first though...
What I’m doing with my life
My days are spent with work, then home (3 animals and a smallish condo to maintain), friends and family. As my profile name implies, I'm a swimmer... So a few days a week you'll find me with my Master's team
I’m really good at
Knowing when to listen and when to talk. I have integrity and am humble enough to know when to acknowledge/accept when I'm wrong.
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't know.. Eyes and smile I guess.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books.. I usually only read on vacation (I know!) but I've really enjoyed "Why We Buy", "Stumbling on Happiness", "Atlas Shrugged"

Movies.. tend to like Action or psychological thrillers. Also a sucker for fantasy/sci-fi .. Underworld, Kick-Ass, Shaun of the Dead, Monty Python Holy Grail, X-Men, etc

TV.. Once Upon a Time, True Blood.. Some reality tv for giggles

Music... Anything except country. Right now I have a very bizarre affinity to the Batman Dark Night trilogy soundtracks. Umm but that's random. I like hard rock - Korn, Disturbed, Muse. Also like pop like Rihanna.. I'm really all over the map
The six things I could never do without
The question is "things", so this is the material stuff..
(1) iPhone (I'm primarily thinking of Pandora and iTunes)
(2) car
(3) swim suit
(4) coffee!
(5) primping gear (brush, basic makeup, etc)
(6) contacts or glasses
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Sex. Yes, I said it. (That's not an invitation to be a jerk/perv... Just want you guys to know you're not alone in your prurient nature. Hehe) Hmm... what else?? Work, To-Do lists, etc

Also.. How to make my life more meaningful so that the world is imprinted with my spirit. Sounds a little cheesy, but I would truly love to find a path or career where I feel like I make a human difference. I've been in Finance or some element of Business my entire career, and I can't help but think to myself - if I disappear tomorrow, would any of the blood sweat and tears make any difference at all?! So grim a thought! But honestly I think it will help me find my deeper calling
On a typical Friday night I am
There's no "typical" Friday night.. I'm either tired from the week and crash by 9:30pm, or I'm out on the town (bar, movies, etc).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If it's private, I'm certainly not going to disclose it here!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 33–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
If you are a good man with depth and character, looking for a meaningful connection