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52 Berkeley, CA Woman


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 35–77
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Yesterday – 8:00am
6′ 1″ (1.86m)
Body Type
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
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My self-summary
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Hi my name is Stephanie,

I am a pre-op transgendered female and live & work 24x7 as a woman
I'm fun, friendly, sensuous, and sane. I'm looking for a few poly lovers from the bay area. I eventually want a primary relationship and being "bi" I want the company of both men & women.
I am very attracted to tall well built black men, especially those who are dominant. With men I'm very submissive and sexy.
I also love the intimacy of women, especially ones who can see both the male & female in me. In those relationships get more switchy and love it when we sensually flow between various roles.

If you are interested, you must be able to make a date and show I need you to be HONEST, sensuous, kinky & Loving. No LDR's.

"In end the end, only kindness matters"
What I’m doing with my life
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I work as a quality software specialist and also write and play music (guitar), love the outdoors, kink and dance (belly dance, salsa, polka, classic rock & ecstatic ...)

I am looking for lovers who can also be honest ... and a true friends.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Talking to people, being honest, skiing, dancing, facilitating teams, traveling, flirting, being on stage, sensual passionate sex and pillow talk
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A warm friendly smile, my legs and ass, blonde hair and being tall <6'1">...

Also of course that "she" is transgender :o
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Jitterbug Perfume, Coyote Blue, and
I love "written on the body" by Jeanette Winterson
It's thought provoking, definitely sexual and the main characters internal thoughts make me laugh out loud ...

I just open it up to random pages and start reading, anyone know if the main character is a man or a woman?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The Unnameable & formless (god - buddha)
Oracles - esp Fairy Cards and I-Ching
Dance & Music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be of service & learning how to honestly say hard but true things to those I Iove ... I didn't do this very well in a previous long-term relationship.
I also think about how nice it will be when I find a few special "someones" to be friends with and to love.
How bad social media is for intimate relationships.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
This is a silly question
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
... I will "admit" it all to the right person
You should message me if
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If you are looking for a poly lover and want to go on a date - with the hope of finding a companion & friend.

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