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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 49–77
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Oct 2
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
My self-summary
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Hi my name is Stephanie. I am a pre-op transgendered female ... and I live & work 24x7 as a woman.

I'm fun, friendly, successful, sensuous and sane. I am looking for a long-term relationship. I'm currently living a more "ploy" lifestyle (while I date) and value quality relationships over quantity.

I'm primarily attracted to black men, and european/south american men (although there is an exception to every rule).

If you are interested, you must be able to make a date and show up for it. I value honesty, passion and companionship.

No long distance relationships (LDR's) please.

"In end the end, only kindness matters"
--- Jewel
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work as a software quality specialist. I also write songs, play music (guitar) and sing. I love the outdoors, kink and dance (all dancing including belly dance, rock, salsa & ecstatic)

I'm trusting I will find a primary relationship with someone who can be a true friend & lover.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Talking to people, skiing, dancing, facilitating teams, traveling, flirting, being a high energy front person on stage, and being a sensual passionate lover ... and I'm good at practicing the intimacy of Pillow Talk.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A warm, friendly smile .... my legs & ass....and that I'm a tall blonde

... and of course that "she" is transexual
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Jitterbug Perfume, Coyote Blue, and
I love "written on the body" by Jeanette Winterson

It's thought provoking, definitely sexual and the main characters internal thoughts make me laugh out loud ...

I just open it up to random pages and start reading, anyone know if the main character is a man or a woman?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The Unnameable & formless (god - buddha)
Love & Intimacy
Oracles - esp Fairy Cards and I-Ching
Dance & Music
Honesty & open communication
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be of service.

Learning how to communicate better - for instance learn how to say hard but true things to those I Iove ... I didn't do this as well as should have ... in two previous long-term relationships.

I think about how nice it will be when I find a soul mate - a primary relationship - though I'm leaving it up to the universe to provide.

I also think a lot about how bad "social media" is for intimate relationships.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Yes I am.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
... lets talk about that in person
You should message me if
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If you are looking for a lover and friend ... and want to go on a date

... with the hope of finding your soul mate.