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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 49–77
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Aug 25
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
My self-summary
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Hi my name is Stephanie. I am a pre-op transgendered female ... and I live & work 24x7 as a woman.

I'm fun, friendly, successful, sensuous and sane. I am looking for a long-term relationship. I'm currently living a more "ploy" lifestyle (while I date) and value quality relationships over quantity.

I'm primarily attracted to black men, and european/south american men (although there is an exception to every rule).

If you are interested, you must be able to make a date and show up for it. I value honesty, passion and companionship.

No long distance relationships (LDR's) please.

"In end the end, only kindness matters"
--- Jewel
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work as a software quality specialist. I also write songs, play music (guitar) and sing. I love the outdoors, kink and dance (all dancing including belly dance, rock, salsa & ecstatic)

I'm trusting I will find a primary relationship with someone who can be a true friend & lover.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Talking to people, skiing, dancing, facilitating teams, traveling, flirting, being a high energy front person on stage, and being a sensual passionate lover ... and I'm good at practicing the intimacy of Pillow Talk.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A warm, friendly smile .... my legs & ass....and that I'm a tall blonde

... and of course that "she" is transexual
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Jitterbug Perfume, Coyote Blue, and
I love "written on the body" by Jeanette Winterson

It's thought provoking, definitely sexual and the main characters internal thoughts make me laugh out loud ...

I just open it up to random pages and start reading, anyone know if the main character is a man or a woman?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The Unnameable & formless (god - buddha)
Love & Intimacy
Oracles - esp Fairy Cards and I-Ching
Dance & Music
Honesty & open communication
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be of service.

Learning how to communicate better - for instance learn how to say hard but true things to those I Iove ... I didn't do this as well as should have ... in two previous long-term relationships.

I think about how nice it will be when I find a soul mate - a primary relationship - though I'm leaving it up to the universe to provide.

I also think a lot about how bad "social media" is for intimate relationships.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Yes I am.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
... lets talk about that in person
You should message me if
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If you are looking for a lover and friend ... and want to go on a date

... with the hope of finding your soul mate.