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swstarling

39 Santa Barbara, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Aug 28
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
For starters, I moved to Santa Barbara for work so I know I may be doing some driving to meet guys out there. The right guy may not be in the back yard.

I'm a good guy with a pretty good sense of humor a good head on his shoulders.

Originally from the South but spent most of adult years in the northeast, mainly NYC. I like to say I have southern charm and northern wit . And the accent is still lingering...

I am ready to date and want someone who has a life of their own but looking for someone to date to add to their life.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Just moved here to CA with a promotion and enjoying the change in scenery and pace.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at socializing. Odds are your friends will like me.

I think it's important that the person you date likes your friends and vice Versa
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People usually notice my eyes and my smile.

I laugh a lot ( unfortunately not in pics as often)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm usually up for a comedy or an action movie but you can talk me into anything ( unless the Kardashians make a movie )

My musical taste are whatever they are currently playing in a bar. I like music and concerts but my iPod is full of crappy music that I'm convinced myself would help me run faster when I was training for races.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why the show " Dead Like Me" never got renewed a third season. Thanks, Showtime.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I am usually doing what I'm invited to. I'm open to most things. But I'm a doer moreso than a planner....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a faint birthmark shaped like Mongolia .
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you are single ( and more than 2 weeks) and want to date someone monogamously.