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28 • New York, NY • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 21–40
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Today – 3:49pm
- 5′ 4″ (1.63m)
- Body type
- Working on university
- Art / Music / Writing
- Open relationship
- Mostly non-monogamous
- Has dogs
- English (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)
ALERT: NOT INTERESTED IN MEN RIGHT NOW. I'm in a monogamish relationship with Twilltastic, with whom I am madly, dizzyingly in love. Check him out! Seriously, look at him! Is he pretty or what? He has basically ruined all other men for me. Sorry, bros.
Bisexual not in the "gender binary" sense, but in the "my gender and other genders" sense (so come at me, all you non-binary folks!). "Queer" is probably better, but sometimes I worry I don't deserve the label because I haven't done enough to dismantle the kyriarchy. Maybe we can dismantle it together on our first date. Or we could just get ice cream.
UPDATE: Now I am also taking English literature classes at CUNY, hoping to wrap up that pesky BA. I was nervous at first but now I just want to stay forever and read every book ever written.
identifying wild birds
adding milk and sugar to black tea in exactly the correct proportions
remembering your birthday
packing (what? I mean for trips)
Movies: An Education, Velvet Goldmine, Bound, Cabaret, Singin' in the Rain, Across the Universe, Y Tu Mama Tambien, Annie Hall, His Girl Friday, Project Nim
Shows: can we just talk about Orange Is The New Black forever and ever?
Music: Musicals. MUSICALS!!! My top three favorite musicals are Gypsy, My Fair Lady, On the Town/A Little Night Music (tied for third place). Honorable mention: Cabaret, Candide, Pacific Overtures, and the songs from Follies outside the context of the show itself.
Food: Tacos; all the tacos. Any combination of noodles and soup, from any culture. New England clam chowder. Bacon. Hot dogs, the more crap piled on the better. White nectarines. Cashews. Beer. Anything spicy. Milkshakes. Can we go back to talking about musicals?
...whether I should have another cup of tea. (Yes.)
...what life would be like if I had a dick. (Probably not too different, except I'd have a dick, which would be fun.)
...you're a modern-day Artemis worshiper.
...you're a queer/bi woman in a hetero-passing relationship, and you just want to be friends and bond over that. It's kind of lonely out here!
...you want to talk about The Secret History. I ALWAYS want to talk about The Secret History.
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