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sxjthefirst

37 M Sydney, Australia

My Details

Last Online
Aug 25
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Indian
Height
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Tamil (Fluently), French (Poorly), Hindi (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
When I try my hand at these "about me-s" so many things come to my mind and am not sure what to say and what not to ... Well take a look at my profile if you feel we can be friends (or more) leave me a message.

Looking for:

Love. Yes I believe in love I can see people around me who are in love so the data supports the hypothesis that love exists.

Friends. Always. Always up to making a new friend. So if you think we may not be romantically/sexually compatible go ahead and still message me we never know what interests we might share. Benefits negotiable :)

Not against online friends but I feel I have made a ton of those. So prefer someone I can meet with in person.

Physique:
Never been toned and fit I doubt I ever will. Never been fat. I was the skinny guy in glasses for the first 25 years or so of my life. Since then have shaped up a little better (and yeah got rid of the glasses) I work out mostly at home - a combo of pilates, yoga, and stretches - wondering if I should go back to the gym. I am also learning to swim so if you can help with that awesome.
I stay active except when I am lazy ;)
I have a right leg thinner than the left so walk with a limp. Yep I am gay AND lame :)

Nerd Cred:
I have a stackoverflow score in the high 100s. I go to technology meetups. I can code in Unix Shell, Java, Android, and Python. A bit of C++ too. I am a Bat fan but like characters in both DC and Marvel universe. And I am a fan of P.G Wodehouse's works too. I've read Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy! Not a gamer or trekkie.

Personality:
Friendly, rational, well read, laid back, and casual. Not religious or spiritual but a thinker and philosophical. Can be short tempered (but never violent) at times. Calm under stress.
If I am not talking a lot to you we aren't getting along or something is bothering me.

I am informed, sensitive, and realistic
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Improving it... Step by step ...achieving my dreams
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't know...ask 'em. Smile and eyes seem to be the most popular answers on here not boobs or bulges :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
a)Books- I read a lot. b) Movies - Many many of them. Anything that's intelligent and/or funny. c) Music- Not my strong area. Anything thats sounds like a good listen d) Food - Love to try out different eats...love indian, italian, american, malaysian, chinese, mexican etc. When I put my mind to it my cooking is good and people have survived and appreciated it
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Other than whats necessary to sustain life(food, water, clothes, money, friends...) nothing much. I've been told that I am flexible.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
In no particular order: the world, me, me and the world, politics, films, my future, my past, sex, friends, family, society, love, punctuation, books, psychosis, ice cream ...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
No typical night...sometimes I go out sometimes I go wild, sometimes dinner or a swim or walk or a movie, at others I stay at home and watch TV or read or browse, yet others I muck around. Then there's always chores to be done.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am gayer than people think :)
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 23–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You want to tell me something? DUH!! I am good at chatting so go ahead send me a message.