Dungeons & Dragons, Drawing, Sculpting, Cooking, Exercise, Gaming, Planning, 3D sculpting, etc. (ask). I'm open to many activities and want friends or a partner to properly experience things like paint-balling and rock climbing.
Holistic/Nutritional information, Physics, Astronomy, Cosmology, Furry, 3D Design, Body Sculpting (artificial or natural), Body Modification (within reasonable, non-creepy limits. Think Corsets and the like), Anime, etc. (ask)
Japanese, Tagalog, Swedish, Tamil
Cat or Dog Person
Both, along with reptiles. Life without a pet isn't an option, despite my allergies. Stuck without one, while I live in military dorms, though. ;.;
Saying 'legit' or 'legitly' or any other annoying slang.
People deep into any sort of fashion/expensive clothing or overall trendy look. Nice clothes are good... but spending $250+ on clothing each month or two? Ridiculous to me.
People that claim to not be judgmental. You are a human - a creature with judgement linked to its very core. Problems only arise when one lets judgement create dismissive results, exclusions or hatred.
Spontaneous outings. I like to have things planned at least a day beforehand. A surprise is nice, now and again, though. :3
Things I Do That May Annoy Others
Emoticons... I use them a ton. :D Don't call them "emoji"... ugh.
My writing styles are generally much more cold and dry than the way I actually speak. The disconnect could be a bit jarring for some. I'm much more bubbly/giggly and light-hearted than my writings would imply.
I have trouble initially being direct with others.
Drug-abusers, smokers, heavy drinkers, STD-carriers, open relationships.
I'd prefer you ask on this one. ^///^;
Heavy insecurities. If you have body image issues, that's fine. Just don't constantly groan about what you hate about yourself. Do something about it.
Excessive pride. Just as above, though flipped - don't brag all the time.
Overweight people that don't show any sign of taking care of themselves.
Body hair - Chest, back, butt, scrotum, face/neck, shoulders.
All insects and arachnids freak me out. ;.;
I'm afraid of the dark still, when outdoors.
People tend to be quite fond of my whistling. O_o
I want to own 3 dogs and 3 cats, of specific breeds, together at some point. That or 4 cats and 2 dogs. Cats: Toyger, Singapura, Savannah, Asian "Leopard", Bombay. Dogs: Husky, Malamute, Black Lab/German Sheppard mix.
I like big butts and I cannot lie.
I'm a bit of a contortionist.
General 'About Me'
I can be quite blunt... even to the point of rudeness. This is a rarity, these days. For the most part, though, I'm gentle and conflict-avoiding in nature. However, I'm human and thus have opinions and perceptions that may differ from the masses and require defending. I've never been accused of being too serious, though. Usually quite the contrary. D:
I'm a much better listener than conversationalist. I'm getting better at being social these days, though.
For a time, I created home-made skincare and hair-care "products". It's an expensive hobby, though. I might get back into it soon. I'm currently into consumable gardening, running a mini-farm of sorts within my home. n_n;
When I'm not gaming, I'm a rather big hobbyist. I used to enjoy working with wood, in High School... but haven't had the chance since then. The last time I was able to sculpt and fire my sculptures was college, so it's been a while with that as well.
I enjoy cooking and generally creating (artistic and otherwise). I enjoy making food as healthy as possible while still making it taste amazing. I think I'm quite good at that.
Creating things from scratch - my own tea blends, sauces, etc. is far up on the 'fun scale' for me. I was previously practicing a raw vegan lifestyle. This means I was not consuming any cooked or even processed foods. I've got no problem cooking or using meats for others, though. One day, I'll return to that lifestyle... but while I'm in Japan, seafood is back on the menu! :p
I prefer winter and early spring weather.
I enjoy nude beaches and any place I can legally be nude outside of my living space.
I'm a bit of a mutt, genealogically speaking. Buuut, going by purely looks, you can guess what I'm noticed as. For those curious: Haitian, Dominican, and German, and Spanish on my mom's side. British, Hispanic (undetermined type), and "Black" on my dad's side. I need to dig into my paternal history more.
I'm honest to a fault - I do not like to lie or even embellish to get what I need or want.
I'm most cuddly when I'm tired.
I fall for people far too easily but am still working on trying to stop that.
I'm not a very 'forward' person in that I don't tend to take action/initiative towards others unless such actions have been taken towards myself first. Meaning, I don't like to be the one to make the initial approach - it leads to disappointment, on my part, far too often. On here, it leads to simply being ignored.
I tend to only end up more strongly attracted to strong, more forward men. I'm generally not attracted to the gentle, shy type. This has led to years upon years of heartache because the men I end up WANTING to be with are either gay and taken, straight, far too promiscuous for my tastes, in the closet to family and friends, "straight" and unsure if they want to be with a guy long term, or bi looking for some male playtoy on the side. I have no idea how to even begin working on falling for those types. And yes, I have given relationships with the gentle/shy type a try on 3 occasions. I feel virtually no spark in them and ultimately end up feeling trapped because neither of us wants to initiate the end. Ultimately, I'm ALWAYS the one that has to break it off. Not only that but being on the more gentle-shy side myself, the relationships were far to slow and stale with neither side taking initiative more often than not.
My experience with bisexuality leads me into a bias against it, due to a severe lack of commitment from them so far. Do seek to change my opinion, if you're up for it.
I prefer people to be open books, like myself. Meaning, I don't have to pry EVERY little detail with questions - rather, they will divulge regardless of whether or not I ask because they are genuinely interested in sharing themselves. People that care about shrouding themselves in an enigmatic veil are not worth my time or even my trust. Mystery men can find someone else looking to slowly unwrap their gift. Oh, on a related note, I don't like to be "teased".
In terms of dating - I'd much rather spend time together at home than being out an about, splurging money. It's nice, once in a while, though. I'm more of a romantic - I'd love to prepare you a dinner and cuddle on the couch while watching a cheesy movie... or gaming together. There are a few out-of-the house but off-the-wall dates I would enjoy, though. Take me paint-balling, rock climbing, out to high-end gym or something, as a date, and you're probably golden.
Eventually, I'd like to settle somewhere in Canada or Sweden. I want to visit Japan as well. My current hobbies lead me to want to settle somewhere semi-tropical, to ensure I can grow a wide variety of foods with fewer obstacles. We'll see how the world looks, in 6/10/20 years.
I know what I want, I know what I like. I'm not here to be your experiment or to satisfy your 'black guy' fetish. Definitely not here to be the 'third wheel' in your already-existing relationship. I'm not here for hook-ups - that lifestyle is not for me. I'm here for a possible long-term relationship.
INFJ Personality Type - https://www.personalitypage.com/html/INFJ_rel.html
Anything I didn't cover? Feel free to message me~ I won't bite... unless we get to that point. :3
*~I'm a sweetheart and a bitch, ~*
*~clingy as well as standoffish, arrogant but modest, shameless yet morally-bound,~*
*~dominant while submissive, down to earth with my head in the clouds,~*
*~an all around Diva but still the Boy Next Door.~*
*~By equation, just your average human.~*
Nobody should lean too far towards either end of the spectrum. It makes for either a bland or dangerous person.
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