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29 Misawa, Japan Man


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  • Ages 22-40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 19
Black, Hispanic / Latin, White, Other
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Dropped out of University
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Warning, lots to read... I've never been satisfied with succinct summaries (redundant o3o ).

Dungeons & Dragons, Drawing, Sculpting, Cooking, Exercise, Gaming, Planning, 3D sculpting, etc. (ask). I'm open to many activities and want friends or a partner to properly experience things like paint-balling and rock climbing.

Holistic/Nutritional information, Physics, Astronomy, Cosmology, Furry, 3D Design, Body Sculpting (artificial or natural), Body Modification (within reasonable, non-creepy limits. Think Corsets and the like), Anime, etc. (ask)
[]Language Interests[]
Japanese, Tagalog, Swedish, Tamil

[]Cat or Dog Person[]
Both, along with reptiles. Life without a pet isn't an option, despite my allergies. Stuck without one, while I live in military dorms, though. ;.;

Saying 'legit' or 'legitly' or any other annoying slang.
People deep into any sort of fashion/expensive clothing or overall trendy look. Nice clothes are good... but spending $250+ on clothing each month or two? Ridiculous to me.
People that claim to not be judgmental. You are a human - a creature with judgement linked to its very core. Problems only arise when one lets judgement create dismissive results, exclusions or hatred.
Spontaneous outings. I like to have things planned at least a day beforehand. A surprise is nice, now and again, though. :3

[]Things I Do That May Annoy Others[]
Emoticons... I use them a ton. :D Don't call them "emoji"... ugh.
My writing styles are generally much more cold and dry than the way I actually speak. The disconnect could be a bit jarring for some. I'm much more bubbly/giggly and light-hearted than my writings would imply.
I have trouble initially being direct with others.

[]Flat-out No[]
Drug-abusers, smokers, heavy drinkers, STD-carriers, open relationships.

I'd prefer you ask on this one. ^///^;

Heavy insecurities. If you have body image issues, that's fine. Just don't constantly groan about what you hate about yourself. Do something about it.
Excessive pride. Just as above, though flipped - don't brag all the time.
Overweight people that don't show any sign of taking care of themselves.
Body hair - Chest, back, butt, scrotum, face/neck, shoulders.

[]Minor Phobias[]
All insects and arachnids freak me out. ;.;
I'm afraid of the dark still, when outdoors.

People tend to be quite fond of my whistling. O_o
I want to own 3 dogs and 3 cats, of specific breeds, together at some point. That or 4 cats and 2 dogs. Cats: Toyger, Singapura, Savannah, Asian "Leopard", Bombay. Dogs: Husky, Malamute, Black Lab/German Sheppard mix.
I like big butts and I cannot lie.
I'm a bit of a contortionist.

[]General 'About Me'[]
I can be quite blunt... even to the point of rudeness. This is a rarity, these days. For the most part, though, I'm gentle and conflict-avoiding in nature. However, I'm human and thus have opinions and perceptions that may differ from the masses and require defending. I've never been accused of being too serious, though. Usually quite the contrary. D:

I'm a much better listener than conversationalist. I'm getting better at being social these days, though.

For a time, I created home-made skincare and hair-care "products". It's an expensive hobby, though. I might get back into it soon. I'm currently into consumable gardening, running a mini-farm of sorts within my home. n_n;

When I'm not gaming, I'm a rather big hobbyist. I used to enjoy working with wood, in High School... but haven't had the chance since then. The last time I was able to sculpt and fire my sculptures was college, so it's been a while with that as well.

I enjoy cooking and generally creating (artistic and otherwise). I enjoy making food as healthy as possible while still making it taste amazing. I think I'm quite good at that.

Creating things from scratch - my own tea blends, sauces, etc. is far up on the 'fun scale' for me. I was previously practicing a raw vegan lifestyle. This means I was not consuming any cooked or even processed foods. I've got no problem cooking or using meats for others, though. One day, I'll return to that lifestyle... but while I'm in Japan, seafood is back on the menu! :p

I prefer winter and early spring weather.

I enjoy nude beaches and any place I can legally be nude outside of my living space.

I'm a bit of a mutt, genealogically speaking. Buuut, going by purely looks, you can guess what I'm noticed as. For those curious: Haitian, Dominican, and German, and Spanish on my mom's side. British, Hispanic (undetermined type), and "Black" on my dad's side. I need to dig into my paternal history more.

I'm honest to a fault - I do not like to lie or even embellish to get what I need or want.
I'm most cuddly when I'm tired.
I fall for people far too easily but am still working on trying to stop that.
I'm not a very 'forward' person in that I don't tend to take action/initiative towards others unless such actions have been taken towards myself first. Meaning, I don't like to be the one to make the initial approach - it leads to disappointment, on my part, far too often. On here, it leads to simply being ignored.

I tend to only end up more strongly attracted to strong, more forward men. I'm generally not attracted to the gentle, shy type. This has led to years upon years of heartache because the men I end up WANTING to be with are either gay and taken, straight, far too promiscuous for my tastes, in the closet to family and friends, "straight" and unsure if they want to be with a guy long term, or bi looking for some male playtoy on the side. I have no idea how to even begin working on falling for those types. And yes, I have given relationships with the gentle/shy type a try on 3 occasions. I feel virtually no spark in them and ultimately end up feeling trapped because neither of us wants to initiate the end. Ultimately, I'm ALWAYS the one that has to break it off. Not only that but being on the more gentle-shy side myself, the relationships were far to slow and stale with neither side taking initiative more often than not.

My experience with bisexuality leads me into a bias against it, due to a severe lack of commitment from them so far. Do seek to change my opinion, if you're up for it.

I prefer people to be open books, like myself. Meaning, I don't have to pry EVERY little detail with questions - rather, they will divulge regardless of whether or not I ask because they are genuinely interested in sharing themselves. People that care about shrouding themselves in an enigmatic veil are not worth my time or even my trust. Mystery men can find someone else looking to slowly unwrap their gift. Oh, on a related note, I don't like to be "teased".

In terms of dating - I'd much rather spend time together at home than being out an about, splurging money. It's nice, once in a while, though. I'm more of a romantic - I'd love to prepare you a dinner and cuddle on the couch while watching a cheesy movie... or gaming together. There are a few out-of-the house but off-the-wall dates I would enjoy, though. Take me paint-balling, rock climbing, out to high-end gym or something, as a date, and you're probably golden.

Eventually, I'd like to settle somewhere in Canada or Sweden. I want to visit Japan as well. My current hobbies lead me to want to settle somewhere semi-tropical, to ensure I can grow a wide variety of foods with fewer obstacles. We'll see how the world looks, in 6/10/20 years.

I know what I want, I know what I like. I'm not here to be your experiment or to satisfy your 'black guy' fetish. Definitely not here to be the 'third wheel' in your already-existing relationship. I'm not here for hook-ups - that lifestyle is not for me. I'm here for a possible long-term relationship.

INFJ Personality Type -

Anything I didn't cover? Feel free to message me~ I won't bite... unless we get to that point. :3

*~I'm a sweetheart and a bitch, ~*
*~clingy as well as standoffish, arrogant but modest, shameless yet morally-bound,~*
*~dominant while submissive, down to earth with my head in the clouds,~*
*~an all around Diva but still the Boy Next Door.~*
*~By equation, just your average human.~*

Nobody should lean too far towards either end of the spectrum. It makes for either a bland or dangerous person.

PSN: KittenpasteCo
Xbox: Kittenpaste Co
Steam: Syddlesfuzz
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Building it one vertex at a time.

I'm skilled in various computer-related fields but I stopped enjoying it when I started having to make a living from it. I'm now in the Air Force for various reasons. I'm able to resume college, without building up huge debt again, while in the service! :)

Experiencing Japan! :D
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Drawing (among other artistic things). I have a gallery but I can't link it here - too much 'naughty' stuff.
Stuff and like some junk.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a tall black dude.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
[]Favorite Books[]
What's a book? Really, though, I need to get into the habit of reading at least one book a year. .-.

[]Favorite Video Games[]
Final Fantasy Tactics, Shining Force 1/2, Phantasy Star 4, Soul Calibur 2-5, Dofus, Secret of Mana, Legend of Mana, Super Mario RPG, Super Metroid, Parasite Eve, Resident Evil 1-3 and CV, Portal 2, Halo 1-4 and Reach, Super Smash Brothers Brawl, The Bouncer, Final Fantasy 6/7/8/10, Lunar: SSSC, The Legend of Zelda, The Legend of Zelda: A Link to the Past, Bushido Blade, Breath of Fire 2/3, Powerstone 1/2

[]Favorite Gaming Console[]
PSP - it holds all of my emulators in a conveniently portable package. :p Really, though, my most fond memories come from Sega's consoles. The Genesis, Saturn and Dreamcast, to be specific.

[]Favorite Movies[]
The Last Unicorn, Silent Hill, Sintel

[]Favorite Shows[]
True Blood, Family Guy, American Dad, Adventure Time, Regular Show, Strangers with Candy, Aeon Flux, The Daily Show, The Colbert Report, 4400, Good Eats, Arby n' the Chief, tons and tons of anime

[]Favorite Music[]
I listen to a bit of everything from around the world. It's probably better to get to know my tastes personally - in music and just in general. For a very small example of what types of music I like, you can browse my favorites on Youtube... and also get a general sense of what I enjoy.

[]Favorite Natural Foods[]
Ginger, Strawberries, Red Grapes, Dates, Celery, Avocados, Cauliflower, Onions, Jalapenos, Fava Beans, White Sweet Corn, Soy Beans, Almonds, Watermelon, Honeydew, Pears, Bananas, Sweet Potatoes

[]Favorite "Junk" Foods[]
(Foods I used to indulge in and may again, at some point :p)
Thin crust pizza, Raw Vegan Pizza, Sushi, Seafood in general
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My skin - it protects me from many nasty things. D:
Quality Foods
Shelter - I've never had to live without it but I don't imagine I'd fair well.
Video Games - An integral part of my life since toddlerhood.
La Internet - Too many awesome people I'd be without, if I lost this for good.
Pets - Pet cuddles are the best.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend way too much time thinking up stories for characters I've created... I should write.

Science in general. I love learning how nature -possibly- works in all scales, on-world and off-world.

Numbers... I'm not a math nut but numbers are always on my mind. D: 8, 6 and 9 are my favorite numbers, for various reasons. This is why I have answered 986 OKCupid questions. :p Uhmm... does that seem OCD?

The future of mankind. I know... it's a weird one. If I could live forever, I would 'sit back' and observe our evolution.

Cock too... I'm a bit of a pervert and I don't care to hide that fact in the least. Most of my art revolves around it. Don't get the wrong idea, though. I'm quite the prude unless I'm in a relationship, wherein I'm probably more kinky than you'll be comfortable with. :x Buuuuut that's something you'll have to find about more about on your own. :p
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
In my dorm with my friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Generally, people would consider this private: I'm still a virgin. You can't say that your shocked, if you've read my profile this far. ;p
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you somehow haven't been scared off
you read my entire profile
you're generally and genuinely nerdy
you're a gamer
you're looking for a friend
you're taller than me (what can I say, it's my biggest weakness)
you're serious about creating a long-term, faithfully committed, healthy relationship
you can type with your tentacles