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44 Saint Paul, MN Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:04pm
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I am here to find that connection we are all here looking for. I know that it is rare and hard to find. I think it is worth looking for though. I think it is worth being patient and learning and working for. I think if it was just easy, it probably wouldn't mean as much and feel as good and change our lives as much as it does when you find that true partner.

I have learned that even if you have almost everything in common, you still won't feel it if that true connection isn't there. And that doesn't mean I don't want things in common, I certainly do, but I am open to the possibilities in order to seek that connection.

There are a lot of games being played in the dating scene. Some games are normal and part of meeting someone new and figuring out if that connection is there, because sometimes one person feels it and the other doesn't. Some games are very disappointing. All I ask in that regard is that if we meet, we can just be sincere with each other. I am not into everyone I meet, and not everyone I meet is into me, in fact it even seems sometimes like its one or the other. What I want to find is a mutual feeling. I think we all do.

I really think it best to meet face to face and find out. Most of the time you probably know right away if you feel something or not. If so, then it is also easier to get to know someone face to face as well. So, if I seem like I am not too into messaging that is why. That said, I have no problem communicating through the messaging system. I totally understand if there are certain deal-breakers you want to find out about or scheduling or something like that.

I have a daughter that truly means everything to me. My goal in dating is to find someone I can introduce to her, someone who can accept her with me.

Thank you for reading, I hope you find your match:) ”
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work at a company that manufactures entrance mats.

Doing home improvements.

I would love to go into teaching music. It doesn't have to be a career or even make much money. I just love to teach and would enjoy taking some students and teaching beginning or intermediate guitar.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Logic, Sketching, Guitar, Painting, Math, Problem Solving, computers...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
This is a strange question. I tried to answer it before, but realized that the best I can do is guess, and when we guess we are probably putting what we, in our egotastic minds, believe are such wonderful traits that no one can possibly not see them.

So, here is an effort of honesty.

I think that first thing people notice about me is either what I look like or what I sound like depending on whether they see me first or hear me first.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Rock n' Roll baby!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
it says "things" so I am not going to include people, it kind of goes with saying anyway...

clothes, (not that I am into fashion, I just mean that clothes are pretty necessary, I wouldn't want to go out the door without them!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My brain is in a constant state of motion. I think about everything. Whatever is currently happening or going to happen usually runs around my brain quite a bit.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Watching a movie, playing a game, or, on the Fridays I have my daughter, I am playing, taking a walk, cooking...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I know this is not being specific, but if you want details please ask me, I will be completely open and answer any questions.

I have been through tragedy and pain in my life. I have been through many trying experiences. Many people would probably see me as having "baggage", but I have survived it all and feel that I am stronger for it and I have learned much from my experiences.
You should message me if
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You want to chat or talk to find out if we would like to meet.