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35 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Feb 21
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, and laughing about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I just read a really long profile, and it inspired me to write a book about myself... as I wait to go out on the town for a raging night of drum 'n bass and hardstyle. I'll be on that dancefloor raging until the sun comes up. I'm most in my element when at a festival, yoga class, concert, 'electronica concert (anything musical, really), or out in nature doing something fun!

I just moved back to Illinois after spending eight years in California (I miss it!). I'm looking to meet awesome people around me. I've gotta be honest, and if this is a 'deal breaker,' so be it - I am currently without a car (but saving up to buy one). Public transit was the bees knees out West. It's so not the case, living in the suburbs.

I'm a ridiculous fool sometimes, but I do it tastefully! I'm a monkey that mingles in the trees and embraces the nature freak within. I'm an adventurer that loves hiking and difficult terrain.

I challenge you to join me on a run. Some days are short. Other days are half marathons (a goal for the future!).

I see myself as a confident little spark. I love meeting and talking to people. I love making new friends. I can read energy and auras (it helps to keep the low vibrations away). Some call me a spiritualist. Call me whatever you want. There are infinite facets to me :)

Some other words used to describe me are compassionate, lovable, authentic, interesting, inspiring, humorous, smiley, energetic, loyal, honest, motivated, and dedicated.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Healing, Playing, Living, Evolving, Laughing, Jumping, Dancing, Spinning...

Can it get any better than this?!

Recently, I became attuned to Usui Reiki Master and am taking my talents as a healer to the next level, soon enrolling in school to pursue advanced reiki, yoga teacher certification, and massage.

Coming back to Illinois put a bass guitar in my hand, and I've already embraced my future as a rock star ;) Now to gain the vocal range of Russell Allen (of Symphony X)... And of course, I'm producing electronic music and embracing my education from the Los Angeles Recording School learning oodles of knowledge in audio engineering.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reiki and Energy Healing
Making you smile
Cooking up mouthwatering dishes with random ingredients
Being weird (read... unique)
Climbing on everything
Choosing awesome adventure spots
Dancing in public
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My aura
The smile that never fades
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books - Be Here Now, The Celestine Prophecy, The Artist Way, The Davinci Code, Book of Secrets, Srimad Bhagavatam, Bhagavad Gita, Caitanya Caritamrta, The Drama of Lord Jagannatha.

Shows - WWE everything.
Channels I watch - Cooking, Food Network, Discovery, A&E, History, Science, Spirit Science

Movies - Grandma's Boy, Human Traffic, Training Day, City of God, Insurrection, Gothika, Stigmata, Stir of Echoes, Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles, The Crow, Office Space, The Nightmare Before Xmas, Step Up 2 & 3 (shut up! Don't laugh :P), Another Earth, Cloud Atlas, First Contact, Hackers, Super Troopers, Life of Pi, Avatar, Sunshine, American Beauty, Psycho, Hellraiser, Puppet Master I - V

I also watch a lot of 'spiritual movies' and videos on YouTube.

Music - Most EDM - dominantly festival music, drum & bass/jungle, gabber, hardstyle, breakcore, techno, breakbeat, glitch, intelligent dance music; metal/rock, "new age"/spiritual, downtempo, old skool hip hop.

I'm open to pretty much everything as long as there is actual 'talent' involved.

I love FOOOOOOOD. Not only do I love cooking it, but I love eating it! I eat mostly vegetarian. The move to illinois put some flesh back into my diet though. My body stays happy this way. Became hooked on Indian food through my stay and friendships with the Hare Krishna devotees. I also enjoy Italian and Mediterranean food :) I'm also addicted to avocados and mangoes. mmmm. :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Food and Water

Okay. That's seven. Get over it ;)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Goals for the future. 'Is that thing in the sky a UFO?' Yoga. Consciousness. How to better myself and the Universe around me. World peace. Living in multiple dimensions. World peace. Aliens & UFOs. My next adventure! What I'm going to cook for my next meal (even if I don't eat it).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
being spontaneous! I could be out at a concert/camping trip/party, or be staying back enjoying good food and talk with friends.

I don't believe in planning most things :) (unless it NEEDS to be planned)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm an alien from another star system ;)

I am attracted to people based on SOUL RESONANCE, meaning, I don't even have to know anything about you, but if your vibe SHINES, I naturally come closer to find out more. Your outer beauty comes second to your inner.

These questions used to match people to a percentage are the most mundane things I've ever read. I wonder who writes this stuff?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're the same person online that you are in real life. It seems OKCupid houses people who don't know what they want. I'm not looking for excuses. I'm looking for solid relationships, MAYBE even a girlfriend. But it seems that my experience with OKC has not been the greatest thus far. It is common sense that we are not THE SAME. When on a dating site, I would think that the general idea is to meet someone and learn about each other, creating a connection. It's cool to have things in common, but suppose you are different. Does that mean one cannot become attracted to the other?

I dig those that go with the flow, and know what they want out of life. I'm not here to help you figure out where you're headed. Confidence translates to beauty. I dig someone with an extroverted personality that has no boundaries. I'm an open book.

I like meeting people in person. I'm not the one to type note after note to someone for eons. Connection happens face to face, and if we're not going to meet yet, I at least expect that we talk on the phone. Texting is so impersonal.

You want a kick ass guy in your life to light up the world with. I am a blazing ball of enigmatic fire. I'm looking for my queen to rule the Universe with.

Of course I resonate highly with those into healing arts, yoga, music, festivals, fitness, nature, food and all of the awesome things in this planet has to offer!

Don't be shy! Send me a message :)