I am not a newb ❤
I'm part nerd, part hippie dippie new ager, part hillbilly, with some punk added in. I can be super irreverent, hope that's okay.
I've been playing with the new and different gender and orientation options. I'm literally on the fence about being demisexual. It seems to imply being somewhere towards asexual. However I'm VERY sexual, it just has to be with the right people. I really don't perform well unless I'm feeling emotionally safe.
I have a partnership with Suzsteppingup and a long distance relationship with someone who doesn't have a profile here because she was horrified by all the terrible messages she received. (This is why we can't have nice things!) I am oogly googly flat on my face in love with both of them and would not have it any other way.
I pretty much fail at hierarchical polyamory, I can't imagine anyone that I love being secondary.
It is absolutely mandatory that anyone that I am seeing meet my other partners and that I meet theirs. If you can't bring yourself to do this, I suggest avoiding polyamory altogether.
I am starting to realize that I am a very rare breed of poly male.
I do have a strong spiritual leaning, however I keep it to myself unless asked about it. Then I strain to use words to describe it.
There is this new term the kids are using a lot these days. GGG, I had to Google it. Yes, I'm that. However I draw the line at pain.
Once when I was a kid I snuck up on a feral cat while he was sleeping and started scratching him between the ears. The kitty was in utter bliss until he opened his eyes, then he ran away.
I can pet bees.
I am ENFP or INFP, the champion or the healer. I guess I can't make up my mind
Enneagram type 2, the helper.
My love language is touch.
I like to say that I am a reckless gambler with my heart. However there are a few circumstances where I've shied away because I was almost guaranteed to be devastated. When my heart breaks, it breaks hard.
I've experienced this before:
I believe that anyone who avoids love to prevent getting hurt probably just hasn't been hurt enough.
When faced with a dilemma it is not unusual for me to analyse it from every conceivable angle, try to imagine every possible ramification, deem a certain course of action severely unwise, then do it anyway.