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29 Seattle, WA Gender Nonconforming, Non-binary, Genderqueer

Gender Nonconforming, Non-binary, Genderqueer

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Apr 30
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Mostly other
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats
English, Chinese

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My self-summary
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I am new-ish to town and am looking for queer/QTPOC friends for hangouts/vent fests/meals/movies/hikes.

I came out last year, so I'm still bumbling about giving myself plenty of time to figure stuff out. I identify as a radical queer person of color.

I'm gentle with myself, intensely curious to learn from everyone I encounter, seeking to expand my modes of creativity, and recognize the importance of being present.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Just moved to Seattle last season from sunny, warm Austin. On the to do list is to make all new friends, read more books, ride my bike, dance, write poetry.

I work at a stable, successful tech company. I like my job, but I struggle with anti-capitalist feelings and what to do with them. Thinking about starting an anonymous support group called "Bite the Hand that Feeds You."

I like to make things with my hands and want to get better at this. I like wrangling vegetable tanned leather and wood. When I can't commit to a physical craft, I'm making video diaries with my trusty pocket GF2. To do: find a pottery studio, save up for a baby harp, volunteer at Rain City Rock Camp.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Leaving parties early.
Recommending good music.
Really listening and paying attention to the person I'm talking to.
Keeping succulents teetering on the brink of death.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Well, I've unwittingly entered the stage of Confusing Heteronormcore People with my Gender Identity.

I have this functional minimal boy style that represents my philosophy of owning, using and caring for high quality goods for a long time.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Adventure Time, Louie, Bee and Puppycat, BLACK MIRROR, Broad CIty

Recent Music: Beach House, Ryan Hemsworth, Baths, Caribou, The Antlers, Vashti Bunyan, Sharon Van Etten, Charli XCX, Alt-J, Kendrick Lamar

Anything by the great Hayao Miyazaki, The Skin I Live In, Blue Valentine, Fish Tank, Headhunters, Klown, Jeff Who Lives at Home, The Kids are Alright, Stoker, Frances Ha, Blue is the Warmest Color, Call Me Kuchu, Harold and Maude, Boyhood, Cutie and the Boxer, Kumu Hina

Recent Books: The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-Time Indian, How to Be an Adult in Relationships, How to Be an Adult in Love, Sex at Dawn, Excluded, Essays in Love, Your Illustrated Guide to Becoming One with the Universe

Comics/graphic novels:
Saga, On Loving Women, Webcomics: Chester 5000 XYV, Yu+Me: Dream, Oh Joy Sex Toy

I'm gluten free, by choice. My diet mostly consists of high quality animal protein, dark leafy greens, nuts, dried fruit, dark chocolate, and cider. I'm loving the Broadway Farmers Market on Sundays.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My loves in Texas
My Vitamix
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to not be racist.
How to end rape culture.
Privilege, recognizing my own, and how to battle oppression.
How queer spaces marginalize trans women and feminine presenting folks.
How to get rid of internalized homophobia.
How to truly love with complete vulnerability, gentle self-honesty, and shared commitment of personal freedom.
The relationship escalator, and how much of it do I accept/reject.
The notions of peace and justice in America.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Avoiding all-white events
You should message me if
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You are:
a feminist
comfortable with silence
emotionally intelligent
have an generous sense of humor
happy with yourself
educating yourself about issues
used to being around introverts/HSPs
wanting to go to shows
wanting to share good reads with me