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sylvanwye

29 Seattle, WA Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Nov 29
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English, Chinese

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am brand new to town and am looking for queer/QPOC friends for hangouts/vent fests/meals/movies/hikes.

I came out last year, so I'm still bumbling about giving myself plenty of time to figure stuff out. I identify as queer and lesbian.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Just moved to Seattle a month ago from sunny, warm Austin. On the to do list is to make all new friends, read more books, ride my bike, dance, write poetry. Oh, and get a solid pair of leather boots and woolen things.

I work at a stable, successful tech company. I like my job, but I struggle with anti-capitalist feelings and what to do with them. Thinking about starting an anonymous support group called "Bite the Hand that Feeds You."

I like to make things with my hands and want to get better at this. I like wrangling vegetable tanned leather and wood. When I can't commit to a physical craft, I'm making video diaries with my trusty pocket GF2.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Leaving parties early.
Recommending good music.
Really listening and paying attention to the person I'm talking to.
Keeping succulents teetering on the brink of death.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Well, I think I have unwittingly entered the stage of Confusing Heteronormcore People with my Gender Identity.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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TV:
Adventure Time, Louie, Bee and Puppycat, BLACK MIRROR

Recent Music: Son Lux, Sun Kil Moon, Ryan Hemsworth, Caribou, The Antlers, Vashti Bunyan, Sharon Van Etten, Charli XCX, Kelela

Movies:
Anything by the great Hayao Miyazaki, The Skin I Live In, Blue Valentine, Fish Tank, Headhunters, Klown, Jeff Who Lives at Home, The Kids are Alright, Stoker, Frances Ha, Blue is the Warmest Color, Call Me Kuchu

Recent Books: How to Be an Adult in Relationships, How to Be an Adult in Love, Sex at Dawn, Excluded by Julia Serano, Essays in Love, Your Illustrated Guide to Becoming One with the Universe

Comics/graphic novels:
Saga, On Loving Women, Webcomics: Chester 5000 XYV, Yu+Me: Dream, Oh Joy Sex Toy

Food:
I'm gluten free, by choice. My diet mostly consists of high quality animal protein, dark leafy greens, nuts, dried fruit, dark chocolate, and cider. I'm loving the Broadway Farmers Market on Sundays.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My loves in Texas
Freedom
Solitude
Openness
My Vitamix
Sunshine
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to not be racist.
How to end rape culture.
Privilege, recognizing my own, and how to battle oppression.
How queer spaces marginalize trans women, bisexual, and feminine presenting folks.
How to get rid of internalized homophobia.
Fatphobia.
How to truly love with complete vulnerability, gentle self-honesty, and shared commitment of personal freedom.
The relationship escalator, and how much of it do I accept/reject.
The notions of peace and justice in America.
How to surround myself with good design.
Next purchases that will last me 10 years.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Haven't gotten into any sort of routine yet. Still trying to settle in and explore my surroundings. I live in the Central District!
You should message me if
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You are:
a feminist
comfortable with silence
emotionally intelligent
have an generous sense of humor
happy with yourself
educating yourself about issues
used to being around introverts/HSPs
wanting to go to shows
wanting to share good reads with me