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39 / M / Straight / Married
- Last Online
- Oct 17, 2013
- Hispanic / Latin, White
- 6′ 4″ (1.93m)
- Body Type
- Full figured
- Christianity, but not too serious about it
- Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from masters program
- Science / Engineering
- Relationship Type
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- Likes dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly), Latin (Poorly), Esperanto (Poorly)
In my free time, I sometimes try my hand at writing and photography. I generally place my work into the creative commons because I want cultures to be able to build freely on the work of others. For the same reason, I support intellectual property reform. I like and use open source software, but not exclusively.
Blind people will probably notice that I'm tall, and I speak with an oddly shifting mix of accents ranging from Southern to New York, with a Cuban accent when I speak Spanish.
A linguist would be confused by my own version of American English, since I say "the car needs fixed", "I might could do that", and often use "Coke" as a generic term for a soft drink. (I still prefer 'soda' to 'pop', but I try to use the local term when I travel.)
(b) Movies: Duck Soup (and other Marx Brothers movies), While You Were Sleeping, The Worst Witch, The Legend of Billie Jean, Dances With Wolves (expanded "oh, you mean there are women in this tribe too?" edition), The Abyss (expanded "oh, you mean the plot is supposed to make sense?" edition), and anything by Kevin Smith.
(c) radio.grassyhill.org, showtunes, the Buffy musical, anything I can sing along with; Easley Blackwood's microtonal stuff, Rachmaninoff, Debussy, Dvorak, Vieuxtemps, Moxy Fruvous, Jonathan Coulton, They Might Be Giants.
(d) Vegetarian stuff (including, at least for me, dairy and eggs -- dairy because I just can't do without cheese, and eggs because I'm pro-choice: by me, that's not a chicken). I've been known to do a really good Thanksgiving turkey, though, and I'm not afraid to spend a few hours on a recipe if that's what it takes. Good things come to those who take their time...
2. Library books. I'm a big public library fan, and the books there are remarkably affordable. Yay tax-and-spend liberals!
3. Sex. Fortunately, I'm usually willing even when nobody else is in the mood.
4. Internet access. I can only tolerate dialup if there are no other options, and if I was offline for a month, I'd probably twitch.
5. Occasional time by myself. This can be hard for people who greatly value spending time with me, but it's not personal (usually). I just like to wander around in mind and body sometimes.
6. A good pair of walking shoes. They don't have to be expensive; I got a pair from Target for $20 and I like 'em.
Well, perhaps that's not really private. After all, the story is available online, and a quick search for site:asstr.org "going away" would find it.
Let's see. I guess the most private thing I'm willing to admit here is that I'm really bisexual, though with a fairly strong preference for women; I call myself "straight" on OkCupid and other sites for two reasons:
1. I want to retain the ability to give blood; if I got involved with a guy, I'd pretty quickly disqualify myself from ever giving blood again, which is a damn shame (blame the FDA, not the Red Cross).
2. I'm probably not emotionally ready to deal with having a male lover, and that would be pathetically annoying to him. You know, the whole "OMG it's real now, what does it MEAN" thing.
Okay, a third reason:
3. I'm just not that into most guys. I can probably count on the fingers of one hand all the guys that I'd actually want to fool around with, and that's without counting in binary.
- Straight girls only
- Ages 25–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends
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