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32 Shanghai, China Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 28–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:52pm
Body Type
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Mostly monogamous
English (Okay), Chinese (Fluently), German (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A distracted thinker. Straightforward and laid-back. Enjoy the insightful conversations as well as the goof jokes. Master of none. Laughing out loud in public...Awesome friend for sure, if you were not scared by my poker face in the first place. I like to know all kinds of guru in their own field.

My patience with most of the courtship moves is little. It doesn't mean I'm cynical or I don't enjoy the fun things between male and female. People trying so hard to create the image during the courtship in order to attract others. You have to make efforts to filter the useless information by endless conversations and observations and moves. I'd save my time for the ice-cream or just say the sweet things to my guy directly. Give him a big hug when I'm in the mood in any occasion.

Please don't expect me as a traditional type of Asian who born as a dedicated one in any relationship. But if I am, it's because you deserve it, or I am tricked :D.. I mean, come on...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working & Wandering.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The headset lady
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Nonfiction, Sand and Foam by by Kahlil Gibran; works by Mr. WANG Xiaobo;

Movies: "Blackmail (1929) ";" Die Welle (2008)" "Witness for the Prosecution (1957)" ;Movies directed by Woody Allen or Wes Anderson; Notorious ( 1946); The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy (2005), Hot Fuzz (2007) Star Trek 2,6,11; Cashback (2004);Nunta Muta (2008); Lawrence of Arabia (1962); La vita è bella (1997);

Shows: Daily Show( It's still a bit hard for me to catch some of the punch lines as a non English native speaker. ); 30 Rock, Modern Family, The Big Bang Theory, Breaking Bad,House of Cards,The IT Crowd;

Music: Brit-pop, post rock, OST, Electronical ( Daft Punk, Moby, Trentemøller, MGMT) Smith, The; Cure, The; Classical: Some of the Piano and cello pieces ; Food: Chinese cuisine; Sushi, Tiramisu^n
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Nice films
Good laughs
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
This question makes me think....I'm actually a bit over-thinking.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At a live music concert, at home with a Wes Anderson film, at office
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm using OKC...
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Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are a problem solver and stay honest with your weakness.

Your life is as awesome as you pretend it is on okc.

You're patient with someone who has the cope mechanism of passive aggressive. And you love cuddles. It's a great bonus if you could teach me programming. Join me or lead me for a jog.

* You can help me to decide if it's a good idea to travel in Scandinavia in March 2016*