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31 F Shanghai, China

I’m looking for

  • Everybody
  • Ages 28–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Oct 9
Body Type
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
English (Okay), Chinese (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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A distracted thinker. Straightforward and laid-back. Enjoy the insightful conversations as well as the goof jokes. Master of none.

I have the passion for human languages, curious about computer languages.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working closely with the financial people as a non-financial professional. So far so hard...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Procrastination; pick up the music for the fatal moments of your life, such as "with or without you" when I lingering in front of the ice-cream store.( It's my fatal moment, I cannot really eat ice.); Recently looping track is " Major Tom" as I'm now on business trip in HK and I really miss home, miss my parents.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My*poker face*
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Nonfiction, Sand and Foam by by Kahlil Gibran; WANG Xiaobo; Movies: "Blackmail (1929) ";" Die Welle (2008)" "Witness for the Prosecution (1957)" ;Movies directed by Woody Allen or Wes Anderson; Notorious ( 1946); The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy (2005), Hot Fuzz (2007) Star Trek 2,6,11; Cashback (2004);Nunta Muta (2008); Lawrence of Arabia (1962); La vita è bella (1997);
Shows: Daily Show( I have to admit that it is still hard for me to catch some of the punchlines as a non English native speaker. ), Master Chef ( Trying to make myself look cool here); 30 Rock, Modern Family, The Big Bang Theory, Breaking Bad,House of Cards,The IT Crowd;
Music: Brit-pop, post rock, OST, Electronical ( Daft Punk, Moby, Trentemøller, MGMT) Smith, The; Cure, The; Classical: Some of the Piano and cello pieces ; Food: Chinese cuisine; Sushi, Tiramisu^n
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
It's hard to make decision.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At a live music concert, with friends. At Home with my laptop. At Office with a cup of tea.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I like geeks. A Lesson: I used to blame myself for not being good enough for the past few years. But look at the new girl who now with my ex, I suddenly realize what a huge mistake I made.
You should message me if
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I will be in HK for a month since May 25 for work. Will back to Shanghai at middle of June for two weeks. Feel free to show me the place if you don't mind. :)

You would like to have a gig buddy. Or you have a couch available in Oct. or next Feb/March in Europe. Germany will be my first priority. I wanna try Scandinavia too , but I don't get many vacation. maybe later.

I have spent some fun time with Okcupid when I'm suffering from insomnia.

(Aussumeing that the match % index is reliable);

1. The highest match % is 94% and enemy % is 98%。 - I try to get in touch which those enemy matches...okay, they ignored me.

2. English/Russian/German/Spanish/Swedish speakers has the greater number than other speakers regarding to the number of high match % with me-- above 88%; however, by considering the big population of English speaker and the small number of Chinese speaker on OkCupid, I will remove English/Chinese speakers from this list.

3. Highest match (above 90%) are from 1) Medicine/Health 2) Education/Academia 3) Science/Tech/Engineering & Computer/Hardware/Software;

- So those who with stronge empathy and professional skills might have the connection with me. - Nah, friendly and smart people are always a good match for everyone.

I've never learnt statistics, did this observation just for fun, feel free to correct me or to mock me :P