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31 F Shanghai, China

My Details

Last Online
Aug 15
Body Type
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
English (Okay), Chinese (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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A distracted thinker. Straightforward and laid-back. Enjoy the insightful conversations as well as the goof jokes. Master of none.

I have the passion for human languages, curious about computer languages.

As Morrissey's new single sings " World Peace Is None Of Your Business." Be respectful to those who doesn't agree with what you believe in, you are good enough.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working closely with the financial people as a non-financial professional. Try to figure out the future in this mist.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Procrastination; pick up the music for the fatal moments of your life, such as "with or without you" when I lingering in front of the ice-cream store.( It's my fatal moment, I cannot really eat ice.); Recently looping track is " Major Tom" as I'm now on business trip in HK and I really miss home, miss my parents.
The first things people usually notice about me
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daydreaming look
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Nonfiction, Sand and Foam by by Kahlil Gibran; WANG Xiaobo; Movies: "Blackmail (1929) ";" Die Welle (2008)" "Witness for the Prosecution (1957)" ;Movies directed by Woody Allen or Wes Anderson; Notorious ( 1946); The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy (2005), Hot Fuzz (2007) Star Trek 2,6,11; Cashback (2004);Nunta Muta (2008); Lawrence of Arabia (1962); La vita è bella (1997);
Shows: Daily Show( I have to admit that it is still hard for me to catch some of the punchlines as a non English native speaker. ), Master Chef ( Trying to make myself look cool here); 30 Rock, Modern Family, The Big Bang Theory, Breaking Bad,House of Cards,The IT Crowd;
Music: Brit-pop, post rock, OST, Electronical ( Daft Punk, Moby, Trentemøller, MGMT) Smith, The; Cure, The; Classical: Some of the Piano and cello pieces ; Food: Chinese cuisine; Sushi, Tiramisu^n
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My glasses
Nice food
A cup of hot coco
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At a live music concert, with friends. At Home with my laptop. At Office with a cup of tea.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I like geeks. A Lesson: I used to blame myself for not being good enough for the past few years. But look at the new girl who now with my ex, I suddenly realize what a huge mistake I made.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 28–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends
You should message me if
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I will be in HK for a month since May 25 for work. Will back to Shanghai at middle of June for two weeks. Feel free to show me the place if you don't mind. :)

You would like to have a gig buddy. Or you have a couch available in Oct. or next Feb/March in Europe. Germany will be my first priority. I wanna try Scandinavia too , but I don't get many vacation. maybe later.

I have spent some fun time with Okcupid when I'm suffering from insomnia.

(Aussumeing that the match % index is reliable);

1. The highest match % is 94% and enemy % is 98%。 - I try to get in touch which those enemy matches...okay, they ignored me.

2. English/Russian/German/Spanish/Swedish speakers has the greater number than other speakers regarding to the number of high match % with me-- above 88%; however, by considering the big population of English speaker and the small number of Chinese speaker on OkCupid, I will remove English/Chinese speakers from this list.

3. Highest match (above 90%) are from 1) Medicine/Health 2) Education/Academia 3) Science/Tech/Engineering & Computer/Hardware/Software;

- So those who with stronge empathy and professional skills might have the connection with me. - Nah, friendly and smart people are always a good match for everyone.

I've never learnt statistics, did this observation just for fun, feel free to correct me or to mock me :P